Dan Durke Dan Durke and Dan’s fiancée, Katherine Chao, exchanging rings at Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA in 1989. From left to right: Katherine’s mother, Mouy Chao; Katherine Chao; Dan Durke; a distant relative, Hun; Katherine’s aunt. Dan thinks this may be when he first met Katherine’s family. Dan was in his second year of college and Katherine was finishing high school.