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Oral Histories


The oral histories presented here were conducted as part of a project to better understand the life experiences of Cambodian Americans who were children when Cambodia was overtaken by the Khmer Rouge. These vivid survivor accounts were recorded by Pacific Asian Counseling Services (PACS) as a project titled “Cambodian Americans – Oral History of 1.5 Generation” (CAOH). The concept was first developed by Cambodia Town, supported by the API UsCC capacity building projects and implemented by PACS to incorporate a mental health perspective.

A number of oral histories have been collected from older adult survivors but this age group has been largely overlooked. The CAOH project defined the 1.5 generation as children born in Cambodia between 1963 to 1969 and who came to the U.S. between 1980 to 1986. Now adults, their oral histories provide an opportunity to learn about their childhood before and after the Khmer Rouge, what they lost during that time period, their journey to the U.S. and how they adjusted to life in America.


One of the project goals was to explore the factors that contributed to their survival such as the coping skills used to handle emigration and how trauma impacted their well-being. While offering a realistic view of what happened, these oral histories are a message of hope for future generations. FUNDED BY THE LOS ANGELES COUNTY DEPT. OF MENTAL HEALTH Under the Mental Health Services Act The oral histories are archived at CamCHAP and housed at the Historical Society of Long Beach at

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Bokanika Kan Moyle

Biography

Born in 1975 in Battambang, Cambodia, Bokanika remembers very little of the Khmer Rouge period.

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After the Vietnamese entered Cambodia in 1979, Bokanika, her grandmother, mother, and three sisters made it to the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand. They were sponsored by a cousin in Washington, DC. From there they moved to San Diego to be with an aunt. After completing high school, Bokanika attended the University of Denver where she majored in Political Science and earned a master’s degree in marketing. Bokanika is currently a Marketing Director with a health insurance provider, focusing on diversity, equity, and inclusion. Bokanika wanted to share her story because “it’s important for future generations to not forget where they come from… “You can forgive but I don’t think you should forget.” Bokanika also wants others to be aware of both the opportunities and the effects of poverty and violence on the lives of refugee children in the U.S.

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Family Photos

Bokanika Kan’s father, Bo Kan, Cambodia, c.1950.
Bokanika Kan’s father, Bo Kan, Cambodia, c.1950.
Bokanika Kan’s grandfather, Chhung Pen (far right in glasses). He was a congressman in his province. This newspaper clipping shows him as part of a delegation to Thailand. Location o photo is unknown. c. 1950.
Bokanika Kan’s grandfather, Chhung Pen (far right in glasses). He was a congressman in his province. This newspaper clipping shows him as part of a delegation to Thailand. Location o photo is unknown. c. 1950.
Bokanika Kan’s grandfather, Chhung Pen (third from right), shown with a delegation of Cambodian electors. Location of photo is unknown. c. 1950.
Bokanika Kan’s grandfather, Chhung Pen (third from right), shown with a delegation of Cambodian electors. Location of photo is unknown. c. 1950.
Bokanika Kan’s father, Bo Kan (on the right), and his best friend. Friend’s name and location unknown c. 1950.
Bokanika Kan’s father, Bo Kan (on the right), and his best friend. Friend’s name and location unknown c. 1950.
Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan, and father, Bo Kan, visiting Angkor Wat. c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan, and father, Bo Kan, visiting Angkor Wat. c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan, and father, Bo Kan, visiting Angkor Wat with Bokanika’s two older sisters, Min Kan and Lyanne Kan, before Bokanika was born c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan, and father, Bo Kan, visiting Angkor Wat with Bokanika’s two older sisters, Min Kan and Lyanne Kan, before Bokanika was born c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan (far right), and her father, Bo Kan (second from left), visiting Angkor with extended family c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan (far right), and her father, Bo Kan (second from left), visiting Angkor with extended family c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother and father, Borin and Bo Kan (far left) with extended family at Angkor Wat before Bokanika was born c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother and father, Borin and Bo Kan (far left) with extended family at Angkor Wat before Bokanika was born c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother and father, Borin and Bo Kan, (back row at right) with extended family Angkor Wat before Bokanika was born c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s mother and father, Borin and Bo Kan, (back row at right) with extended family Angkor Wat before Bokanika was born c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng (front row, far left), and maternal grandfather, Chhung Pen (front row, 3rd from left) with guests and family. Food offerings suggest it could be a wedding c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng (front row, far left), and maternal grandfather, Chhung Pen (front row, 3rd from left) with guests and family. Food offerings suggest it could be a wedding c. 1960.
Bokanika Kan’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng, at Wat Khemara Ratanaram, a Cambodian Buddhist temple in San Diego, CA, c. 1980. Bokanika is uncertain if her grandmother became a nun in the refugee camps or after arriving in the U.S. Because Sieng Torng took care of Bokanika and her sister, she did not live at the temple, but went there everyday.
Bokanika Kan’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng, at Wat Khemara Ratanaram, a Cambodian Buddhist temple in San Diego, CA, c. 1980. Bokanika is uncertain if her grandmother became a nun in the refugee camps or after arriving in the U.S. Because Sieng Torng took care of Bokanika and her sister, she did not live at the temple, but went there everyday.
Bokanika Kan’s family in San Diego, CA c. 1980. Back row, left to right: Bokanika’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng; her mother, Borin Kan; and her sisters, Lyane Kan and Min Kan. Front row, left to right: Bokanika and her sister, Emery.
Bokanika Kan’s family in San Diego, CA c. 1980. Back row, left to right: Bokanika’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng; her mother, Borin Kan; and her sisters, Lyane Kan and Min Kan. Front row, left to right: Bokanika and her sister, Emery.
Bokanika Kan’s family and step-family gather for a special occasion. Third and fourth from left: Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan, and her aunt, Rumpo Chim. At far right is her step father, Craig Blackman. c. 1980.
Bokanika Kan’s family and step-family gather for a special occasion. Third and fourth from left: Bokanika Kan’s mother, Borin Kan, and her aunt, Rumpo Chim. At far right is her step father, Craig Blackman. c. 1980.
Bokanika Kan’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng, with a group of children and elders at a Buddhist temple. Occasion unknown. December 14, 2023.
Bokanika Kan’s maternal grandmother, Sieng Torng, with a group of children and elders at a Buddhist temple. Occasion unknown. December 14, 2023.
Family gathering for a housewarming party for Bokanika Kan’s sister, Emory. Poway, CA 2016.
Family gathering for a housewarming party for Bokanika Kan’s sister, Emory. Poway, CA 2016.
Bokanika Kan family photo. Left to right: Craig Blackman (Bokanika’s stepfather), Evangelia Moyle (daughter); Borin (mother); Eravan Moryle (oldest son); Bokanika Kan; Evan Moyle (middle son); Matt Moyle (husband). Location: Stevenson Ranch, CA 2022.
Bokanika Kan family photo. Left to right: Craig Blackman (Bokanika’s stepfather), Evangelia Moyle (daughter); Borin (mother); Eravan Moryle (oldest son); Bokanika Kan; Evan Moyle (middle son); Matt Moyle (husband). Location: Stevenson Ranch, CA 2022.

Bonavy Som

Biography

Born in 1966 in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, Bonavy was nine years old when the Khmer Rouge took control of the Country.

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Her family was separated into labor camps in Battambang, the second largest city in Cambodia. After the Vietnamese entered Cambodia in 1979, Bonavy, her sister and mother crossed the Thai border into Khao-I-Dang camp. They were sponsored by a Catholic organization to Valley City, North Dakota, but within the year moved to Long Beach to join extended family. Today Bonavy is a mental health clinician with the Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health at Coastal Asian Pacific Islander Family Mental Health Center. She believes that what makes Cambodians resilient is that “we’re very community based, and we took care of each other, regardless of who it is. If they need help, we extend the hand.”

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Family Photos

Bonavy Som’s father, Bory Men, in Siem Reap, Cambodia, c. 1973. He was executed by the Khmer Rouge. This is the only photo she has of him.
Bonavy Som’s father, Bory Men, in Siem Reap, Cambodia, c. 1973. He was executed by the Khmer Rouge. This is the only photo she has of him.
Bonavy Som’s family from left to right: her cousin, Many In; her mother, Naly Men; Bonavy Som; and her older sister, Bony Som, in Long Beach, CA. 1982. The two families shared a one bedroom apartment until they could afford a bigger place.
Bonavy Som’s family from left to right: her cousin, Many In; her mother, Naly Men; Bonavy Som; and her older sister, Bony Som, in Long Beach, CA. 1982. The two families shared a one bedroom apartment until they could afford a bigger place.
Bonavy Som the day she received her U.S. citizenship at the Los Angeles Convention Center, 1988. She and her mother applied for citizenship after seeing a place on Anaheim Street in Long Beach, CA that provided citizenship training and guidance.
Bonavy Som the day she received her U.S. citizenship at the Los Angeles Convention Center, 1988. She and her mother applied for citizenship after seeing a place on Anaheim Street in Long Beach, CA that provided citizenship training and guidance.
Bonavy Som’s three sons in Long Beach, CA 1988. In back is Douglas Chan Keo (3 yrs old). In front are the twins: Beauregard Vibol Keo and Nickolas Vibott Keo (6 months old).
Bonavy Som’s three sons in Long Beach, CA 1988. In back is Douglas Chan Keo (3 yrs old). In front are the twins: Beauregard Vibol Keo and Nickolas Vibott Keo (6 months old).
Bonavy Som’s maternal grandmother, Touch Khai, in Dallas, TX., 2000.
Bonavy Som’s maternal grandmother, Touch Khai, in Dallas, TX., 2000.
Bonavy Som’s mother, Naly Men. Lakewood, CA 2002.
Bonavy Som’s mother, Naly Men. Lakewood, CA 2002.
Left to right: Bonavy Som, her mother, Naly Men, and her older sister, Bony. They had been sponsored by The Sisters of Mary of the Presentation, a convent in Valley City, North Dakota. This photo was taken at the welcome dinner. 1981.
Left to right: Bonavy Som, her mother, Naly Men, and her older sister, Bony. They had been sponsored by The Sisters of Mary of the Presentation, a convent in Valley City, North Dakota. This photo was taken at the welcome dinner. 1981.
Bonavy Som at her graduation in 2018, with a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology with a focus on Marriage Family Therapy from National University in San Diego, CA. Bonavy says “it was one of the happiest days of my life.” Achieving the degree allowed her to work closely with community members on mental health.
Bonavy Som at her graduation in 2018, with a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology with a focus on Marriage Family Therapy from National University in San Diego, CA. Bonavy says “it was one of the happiest days of my life.” Achieving the degree allowed her to work closely with community members on mental health.
Left to right: Bonavy’s mother, Naly Men, Bonavy, her older sister, Bony, and Lisa Som (Bony’s daughter) at Bonavy’s graduation in San Diego, CA 2018.
Left to right: Bonavy’s mother, Naly Men, Bonavy, her older sister, Bony, and Lisa Som (Bony’s daughter) at Bonavy’s graduation in San Diego, CA 2018.
Bonavy Som with her three sons: (left to right) Douglas, Nikolas, & Beauregard. They are celebrating Bonavy’s birthday at Seafood Cove in Westminster, CA 2020.
Bonavy Som with her three sons: (left to right) Douglas, Nikolas, & Beauregard. They are celebrating Bonavy’s birthday at Seafood Cove in Westminster, CA 2020.
Left to right: Bonavy Som’s mother, Naly Men, Bonavy, Bonavy’s sister, Bony, and Bony’s daughter, Lisa. They are celebrating Cambodian New Year in North Hollywood, CA 1990.
Left to right: Bonavy Som’s mother, Naly Men, Bonavy, Bonavy’s sister, Bony, and Bony’s daughter, Lisa. They are celebrating Cambodian New Year in North Hollywood, CA 1990.

Christina Lee

Biography

Born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, Christina Lee was about 7 years old when the Khmer Rouge took control of Cambodia in 1975.

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Like thousands of others, Christina’s family was forced to leave the city to live in the jungle and work in labor camps without food or healthcare. She was orphaned during this time. After the Vietnamese military entered Cambodia, Christina and one of her aunts went to live in Sisophon, Cambodia for a while. They traveled with a Christian family to Khao-I-Dang refugee camp and were sponsored to Long Beach. Christina attended Poly High School and went on to earn a medical degree at the UCI School of Medicine. She has a private medical practice in Long Beach. Christina later became a pastor, earning her degree at the Claremont School of Theology. Christina wants others to know that Cambodians are not all victims. “We are proud of who we are, where we come from.” Christina remembers the bad times, but there were some good times as well, and she remembers those times as special.

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Family Photos

Dr. Christina Lee is a family medicine specialist. She opened her practice on Atlantic Avenue in Long Beach, CA in 2016.
Dr. Christina Lee is a family medicine specialist. She opened her practice on Atlantic Avenue in Long Beach, CA in 2016.
Dr. Christina Lee (R) with Tony Taing (L), hosting “Our Health is First,” April 2017. This was a weekly show on Khmer TV from 2017-2019. They had special guests and covered such topics as preventative and personal healthcare.
Dr. Christina Lee (R) with Tony Taing (L), hosting “Our Health is First,” April 2017. This was a weekly show on Khmer TV from 2017-2019. They had special guests and covered such topics as preventative and personal healthcare.
Dr. Christina Lee receiving a “Woman of Distinction” award from California State Assemblyman Patrick O’ Donnell for her work within the community of Long Beach, CA. 2017.
Dr. Christina Lee receiving a “Woman of Distinction” award from California State Assemblyman Patrick O’ Donnell for her work within the community of Long Beach, CA. 2017.
Dr. Christina Lee served as emcee for the 2017 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival in Long Beach, CA. Her fluency in English and Khmer, and ability to improvise makes her an ideal person to lead community ceremonies and celebrations.
Dr. Christina Lee served as emcee for the 2017 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival in Long Beach, CA. Her fluency in English and Khmer, and ability to improvise makes her an ideal person to lead community ceremonies and celebrations.
Dr. Christina Lee’s family (left to right): Christina Lee, Jacob Nget (son, age 14), Joshua Nget (son, age 16), Matthew Nget (son, age 12), Christopher Nget, husband. In front is Mariella Nget, Dr. Lee’s daughter. Photo was taken at the wedding of Dr. Lee’s nephew, Vichea Meak, in Lake Forest, CA 2018.
Dr. Christina Lee’s family (left to right): Christina Lee, Jacob Nget (son, age 14), Joshua Nget (son, age 16), Matthew Nget (son, age 12), Christopher Nget, husband. In front is Mariella Nget, Dr. Lee’s daughter. Photo was taken at the wedding of Dr. Lee’s nephew, Vichea Meak, in Lake Forest, CA 2018.
Left to right: Dr. Christina Lee; Shirley Im (youngest paternal aunt); Nancy Meak (middle paternal aunt); and Rany Lee (oldest paternal aunt). Photo taken at the wedding of Nancy Meak’s son, Vichea Meak, in a church in Lake Forest, CA 2018. Dr. Lee was orphaned during the Khmer Rouge. She was reunited with her aunts in the refugee camp and they raised her.
Left to right: Dr. Christina Lee; Shirley Im (youngest paternal aunt); Nancy Meak (middle paternal aunt); and Rany Lee (oldest paternal aunt). Photo taken at the wedding of Nancy Meak’s son, Vichea Meak, in a church in Lake Forest, CA 2018. Dr. Lee was orphaned during the Khmer Rouge. She was reunited with her aunts in the refugee camp and they raised her.
Dr. Christina Lee’s extended family at the wedding of her nephew, Vichea Meak, in Lake Forest, CA. 2018.
Dr. Christina Lee’s extended family at the wedding of her nephew, Vichea Meak, in Lake Forest, CA. 2018.
Dr. Christina Lee in the reception area of her medical office, Long Beach, CA 2018. She has signs in both Khmer and English so Cambodian patients will feel comfortable knowing she is Khmer.
Dr. Christina Lee in the reception area of her medical office, Long Beach, CA 2018. She has signs in both Khmer and English so Cambodian patients will feel comfortable knowing she is Khmer.
Dr. Christina Lee with the Press Telegram mascot at the Golden Future 50+ Senior Expo where she had a booth. Long Beach, CA 2018.
Dr. Christina Lee with the Press Telegram mascot at the Golden Future 50+ Senior Expo where she had a booth. Long Beach, CA 2018.
Dr. Christina Lee with her oldest son, Joshua, who is in his third year at UC San Diego. Dr. Lee has involved her children in the Cambodian culture and volunteer opportunities. Dr. Lee and her son are at a Cambodian Health Professionals Association of America (CHPAA) event 2019. CHPAA sends medical teams to Cambodia every year.
Dr. Christina Lee with her oldest son, Joshua, who is in his third year at UC San Diego. Dr. Lee has involved her children in the Cambodian culture and volunteer opportunities. Dr. Lee and her son are at a Cambodian Health Professionals Association of America (CHPAA) event 2019. CHPAA sends medical teams to Cambodia every year.
Dr. Christina Lee with her daughter, Mariella Nget (10 yrs old), at a senior wellness event in Long Beach, CA 2019. Dr. Lee involves her children in volunteer events where they can learn about their culture and community needs.
Dr. Christina Lee with her daughter, Mariella Nget (10 yrs old), at a senior wellness event in Long Beach, CA 2019. Dr. Lee involves her children in volunteer events where they can learn about their culture and community needs.
In addition to being a medical doctor, Christina Lee also has a degree in Divinity and is the Pastor at the Long Beach Cambodian American United Methodist Church. This photo was taken during Christmas, 1021. Dr. Lee also plays the piano to the right, which she learned to play by ear. She is wearing green to symbolize life.
In addition to being a medical doctor, Christina Lee also has a degree in Divinity and is the Pastor at the Long Beach Cambodian American United Methodist Church. This photo was taken during Christmas, 1021. Dr. Lee also plays the piano to the right, which she learned to play by ear. She is wearing green to symbolize life.
Cambodian American United Methodist Church members walking in the 2022 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival. Left to right: Chinda Chheng, Matthew Glenn, Yanna Hay, Dr. Lee’s daughter, Mariella Nget, Salen Mam, Susan Hun, Dr. Lee, and Dr. Lee’s husband, Christopher Nget. The color and message of t-shirts are reminiscent of the t-shirts given out by missionaries in the refugee camps in Thailand. They are recognized by all who passed through the camps.
Cambodian American United Methodist Church members walking in the 2022 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival. Left to right: Chinda Chheng, Matthew Glenn, Yanna Hay, Dr. Lee’s daughter, Mariella Nget, Salen Mam, Susan Hun, Dr. Lee, and Dr. Lee’s husband, Christopher Nget. The color and message of t-shirts are reminiscent of the t-shirts given out by missionaries in the refugee camps in Thailand. They are recognized by all who passed through the camps.
Dr. Christina Lee in Kampong Chhang, Cambodia, 2023. Dr. Lee went to Cambodia on behalf of her church, the Long Beach Cambodian American United Methodist Church. She treated patients and is an example of how she wants to help all Cambodians.
Dr. Christina Lee in Kampong Chhang, Cambodia, 2023. Dr. Lee went to Cambodia on behalf of her church, the Long Beach Cambodian American United Methodist Church. She treated patients and is an example of how she wants to help all Cambodians.

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Clark Tang

Biography

Clark Tang was born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. Uncertain of the exact date, he believes he was born December 23, 1969.

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When the Civil War began, his family moved to Bangkok, Thailand, but returned to Cambodia to settle close to the Thai border in Bao Pailin, Cambodia. After the Khmer Rouge took over the country, they were unable to cross back to Thailand. After the Vietnamese invasion in 1979, the family escaped to the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand. A cousin in Texas sponsored them to the U.S. Shortly after arriving, they moved to Cincinnati, Ohio to be with an uncle. In 1983, they moved to Long Beach. After graduating from Poly High School Clark attended LBCC, CSULB, and graduated with his BA from CSUDH. He is currently a GAIN Services Worker and Business Services Specialist for Los Angeles County, but his passion is martial arts. Clark says of his life and himself, “All in all, life has struggles, challenges, tribulations, adversities, hardships, etc… These events are either breaking us or making us stronger; it’s always a choice and I choose to live as a Warrior.”

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Clark Tang’s grandparents, You Long and Cheark Ung, when they were just starting their family, Phnom Penh c. 1940. As far as the family knows, the great grandfather came to Cambodia to escape conscription into the Chinese army, probably in the 1800’s. He had no funds, managed to find work, marry and buy a farm. His farm exported tobacco and corn to Vietnam. Clark learned of this on a trip back to Cambodia when he discovered that his family still held several properties.
Clark Tang’s grandparents, You Long and Cheark Ung, when they were just starting their family, Phnom Penh c. 1940. As far as the family knows, the great grandfather came to Cambodia to escape conscription into the Chinese army, probably in the 1800’s. He had no funds, managed to find work, marry and buy a farm. His farm exported tobacco and corn to Vietnam. Clark learned of this on a trip back to Cambodia when he discovered that his family still held several properties.
Portrait of Clark Tang’s father, Chea Pen, Phnom Penh c. 1960.
Portrait of Clark Tang’s father, Chea Pen, Phnom Penh c. 1960.
Clark Tang’s uncle, Bunpa Ung, with Clark’s mother, Clair Ung with Clark (left, approx. 2-3 yrs old) and his older brother Shane Pen, (right, 4-5 yrs old). The photo was taken in a studio in Ta Khmao, Cambodia in 1971. The uncle is now a heart surgeon in Switzerland and has three children. The photos were buried in the ground and a family member went back after the war to dig them up.
Clark Tang’s uncle, Bunpa Ung, with Clark’s mother, Clair Ung with Clark (left, approx. 2-3 yrs old) and his older brother Shane Pen, (right, 4-5 yrs old). The photo was taken in a studio in Ta Khmao, Cambodia in 1971. The uncle is now a heart surgeon in Switzerland and has three children. The photos were buried in the ground and a family member went back after the war to dig them up.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Cheark Ung’s photo and coffin are at center. Back row (left to right): Kim Ung, uncle; Pang Ung, uncle; Kim Heang Ung, uncle. Middle row (left to right): You Long, grandmother. Clark is the child in front. People to the right are unidentified. The grandfather died of a stroke or heart attack before the war. Family members shaved their heads and wore white out of respect for the deceased. Kim Ung had been a military policeman and his entire family was killed during the Khmer Rouge period. Kim Heang Ung was a doctor and was also killed during the Khmer Rouge.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Cheark Ung’s photo and coffin are at center. Back row (left to right): Kim Ung, uncle; Pang Ung, uncle; Kim Heang Ung, uncle. Middle row (left to right): You Long, grandmother. Clark is the child in front. People to the right are unidentified. The grandfather died of a stroke or heart attack before the war. Family members shaved their heads and wore white out of respect for the deceased. Kim Ung had been a military policeman and his entire family was killed during the Khmer Rouge period. Kim Heang Ung was a doctor and was also killed during the Khmer Rouge.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Clark is the child at the center of the photo.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Clark is the child at the center of the photo.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Clark’s family is Chinese and some traditional aspects of a Chinese funeral can be seen. The presence of the coffin and photo means the body has not yet been cremated. Family members bow to show their respect and say goodbye.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Clark’s family is Chinese and some traditional aspects of a Chinese funeral can be seen. The presence of the coffin and photo means the body has not yet been cremated. Family members bow to show their respect and say goodbye.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Clark’s family is Chinese and some of the traditional aspects of a Chinese funeral can be seen. Family members chant as part of the final goodbye and offer gifts to the deceased. Blood relatives of the deceased shave their heads. Those with hair may be friends or relations but not blood related.
Funeral of Clark Tang’s grandfather, Cheark Ung, at a temple in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1974. Clark’s family is Chinese and some of the traditional aspects of a Chinese funeral can be seen. Family members chant as part of the final goodbye and offer gifts to the deceased. Blood relatives of the deceased shave their heads. Those with hair may be friends or relations but not blood related.
Clark Tang’s family in late 1974 or early 1975, at a 100 day memorial service in Svay Sisophon for his maternal grandfather, Cheark Ung. Clark’s uncles prepared the paper house at the center of the photo as well as special food and paper money which were all burned as offerings to the deceased and to ensure the well-being of the family’s ancestors.
Clark Tang’s family in late 1974 or early 1975, at a 100 day memorial service in Svay Sisophon for his maternal grandfather, Cheark Ung. Clark’s uncles prepared the paper house at the center of the photo as well as special food and paper money which were all burned as offerings to the deceased and to ensure the well-being of the family’s ancestors.
Clark Tang and his maternal grandmother, You Long, at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, c. 1980. She adopted Clark when he was 1 or 2 years old and cared for him as a son (NOTE: in Cambodia it is not uncommon for a family member to become the primary caregiver of an extended family member even if their nuclear family is still living) . His grandmother lost many family members, including three sons, during the Khmer Rouge period. After the Vietnamese entered Cambodia in 1979, she wanted to leave the country. Clark’s mother and father wanted to stay, so, he went with his grandmother to the refugee camps in Thailand.
Clark Tang and his maternal grandmother, You Long, at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, c. 1980. She adopted Clark when he was 1 or 2 years old and cared for him as a son (NOTE: in Cambodia it is not uncommon for a family member to become the primary caregiver of an extended family member even if their nuclear family is still living) . His grandmother lost many family members, including three sons, during the Khmer Rouge period. After the Vietnamese entered Cambodia in 1979, she wanted to leave the country. Clark’s mother and father wanted to stay, so, he went with his grandmother to the refugee camps in Thailand.
Clark Tang at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, c. 1980. His t-shirt was provided by one of the Christian missions at the camp. Cambodians escaped the country with only the one set of clothes they had worn during the previous four years, so new clothing was highly valued. It was at this time that Clark started to know and accept God, 1980.
Clark Tang at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, c. 1980. His t-shirt was provided by one of the Christian missions at the camp. Cambodians escaped the country with only the one set of clothes they had worn during the previous four years, so new clothing was highly valued. It was at this time that Clark started to know and accept God, 1980.
Clark Tang’s family in Chonburi, Thailand, c. 1981. From left to right are Clark’s maternal grandmother, You Long; his aunt, Pho Mak; his uncle, Chan Tha Ung; and Clark. They found a sponsor in the U.S. and were transferred from Khao-I-Dang refugee camp to Chonburi for processing. This is an official photo documenting that the family has passed the interview.
Clark Tang’s family in Chonburi, Thailand, c. 1981. From left to right are Clark’s maternal grandmother, You Long; his aunt, Pho Mak; his uncle, Chan Tha Ung; and Clark. They found a sponsor in the U.S. and were transferred from Khao-I-Dang refugee camp to Chonburi for processing. This is an official photo documenting that the family has passed the interview.
Clark Tang’s paternal grandfather, Put Tang in Kandal, Cambodia, c 1985. Clark did not know his father’s family well.
Clark Tang’s paternal grandfather, Put Tang in Kandal, Cambodia, c 1985. Clark did not know his father’s family well.
Clark Tang with his grandmother, You Long, about the time of his graduation from high school in Westminster, CA c. 1986. He was about 19 years old. His grandmother arranged to have this photo taken in a studio so he would remember her. Clark says his grandmother was “the queen of my life.” She passed away at the age of 83.
Clark Tang with his grandmother, You Long, about the time of his graduation from high school in Westminster, CA c. 1986. He was about 19 years old. His grandmother arranged to have this photo taken in a studio so he would remember her. Clark says his grandmother was “the queen of my life.” She passed away at the age of 83.
Clark Tang created this brochure to express his philosophy about life and martial arts. Clark’s focus is on humility. For him, martial arts promotes the ability to sympathize, to not judge others, and to understand that all people have a choice as to how to conduct their life regardless of what has happened to them. He believes people learn from the past to prepare them for the future.
Clark Tang created this brochure to express his philosophy about life and martial arts. Clark’s focus is on humility. For him, martial arts promotes the ability to sympathize, to not judge others, and to understand that all people have a choice as to how to conduct their life regardless of what has happened to them. He believes people learn from the past to prepare them for the future.
From left to right are Rob Wall, Bruce Lee, and Chuck Norris, in front of movie posters for “The Way of the Dragon” (released in the U.S. as “Return of the Dragon), 1972. Clark became close with all three, especially Robert Wall, who was Clark’s daughter’s godfather.
From left to right are Rob Wall, Bruce Lee, and Chuck Norris, in front of movie posters for “The Way of the Dragon” (released in the U.S. as “Return of the Dragon), 1972. Clark became close with all three, especially Robert Wall, who was Clark’s daughter’s godfather.
Clark Tang with his friend, “Bolo” Yeung, after they met at a reunion of the cast of “Enter the Dragon” in Los Angeles, CA 1998. Bolo Yeung is a Hong Kong martial artist and actor. His character in the movie was named “Bolo” and it became his nickname.
Clark Tang with his friend, “Bolo” Yeung, after they met at a reunion of the cast of “Enter the Dragon” in Los Angeles, CA 1998. Bolo Yeung is a Hong Kong martial artist and actor. His character in the movie was named “Bolo” and it became his nickname.
Clark Tang with Jet Li at the annual reunion of the cast of “Enter the Dragon,” Los Angeles, 1998. Jet Li is one of the most well known Chinese martial arts actors. It was also the year of the premiere of “Lethal Weapon 4” and Jet Li was there to help promote the film.
Clark Tang with Jet Li at the annual reunion of the cast of “Enter the Dragon,” Los Angeles, 1998. Jet Li is one of the most well known Chinese martial arts actors. It was also the year of the premiere of “Lethal Weapon 4” and Jet Li was there to help promote the film.
Clark Tang with Ahna Capri who was an actress in “Enter the Dragon.” Los Angeles, CA 1998.
Clark Tang with Ahna Capri who was an actress in “Enter the Dragon.” Los Angeles, CA 1998.
Clark Tang with his father, Chea Pen, on Clark’s first trip back to Cambodia in 2001. Clark had not seen his father since 1979 when he and his grandmother escaped to Thailand. His father was a tailor before the war and the Khmer Rouge had treated him relatively well. Fearing the trip was too dangerous, his mother and father chose to stay in Cambodia rather than make the trip to the refugee camps in Thailand. Clark sponsored his parents to the U.S. and is currently taking care of them. Location: Banteay Srey temple, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Clark Tang with his father, Chea Pen, on Clark’s first trip back to Cambodia in 2001. Clark had not seen his father since 1979 when he and his grandmother escaped to Thailand. His father was a tailor before the war and the Khmer Rouge had treated him relatively well. Fearing the trip was too dangerous, his mother and father chose to stay in Cambodia rather than make the trip to the refugee camps in Thailand. Clark sponsored his parents to the U.S. and is currently taking care of them. Location: Banteay Srey temple, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Clark Tang’s second time visiting Cambodia in 2004. Clark is standing beside the statue of King Sisowath near Wat Phnom in Cambodia's capital, Phnom Penh. He went on this trip to sponsor his parents to come to the U.S.
Clark Tang’s second time visiting Cambodia in 2004. Clark is standing beside the statue of King Sisowath near Wat Phnom in Cambodia’s capital, Phnom Penh. He went on this trip to sponsor his parents to come to the U.S.
Clark Tang with Grand Master Wong Long Ching, Hong Kong, 2014. Ching was an important influence on Clark’s philosophy and martial arts perspective. He calls Ching his adopted father and is very close to him.
Clark Tang with Grand Master Wong Long Ching, Hong Kong, 2014. Ching was an important influence on Clark’s philosophy and martial arts perspective. He calls Ching his adopted father and is very close to him.
Clark Tang founded Wing Chun martial arts school in Signal Hill, CA in 2012. The school was also a temple and open to children and adults. It was in operation for about 10 years. Photo taken in 2014.
Clark Tang founded Wing Chun martial arts school in Signal Hill, CA in 2012. The school was also a temple and open to children and adults. It was in operation for about 10 years. Photo taken in 2014.
Clark Tang (far left) is part of a group who meet annually at the Bruce Lee memorial in Seattle, Washington to celebrate Lee’s birthday. Lee lived in Seattle for many years and had a martial arts school. Photo was taken in 2014.
Clark Tang (far left) is part of a group who meet annually at the Bruce Lee memorial in Seattle, Washington to celebrate Lee’s birthday. Lee lived in Seattle for many years and had a martial arts school. Photo was taken in 2014.
Clark Tang with Linda Emory Lee, Bruce Lee’s widow, at a gathering in Seattle, WA, where Lee lived for many years and had a martial arts school. 2014.
Clark Tang with Linda Emory Lee, Bruce Lee’s widow, at a gathering in Seattle, WA, where Lee lived for many years and had a martial arts school. 2014.
Clark Tang (far right in blue) at the grand opening of the Shaolin Kung Fu school in Walnut, CA, 2015. Clark practices a modern version of Shaolin, but is affiliated with this school. All the men in yellow are Shaolin monks.
Clark Tang (far right in blue) at the grand opening of the Shaolin Kung Fu school in Walnut, CA, 2015. Clark practices a modern version of Shaolin, but is affiliated with this school. All the men in yellow are Shaolin monks.
Clark Tang made this flyer to explain his philosophy on Wing Chun Kung Fu. The upper photo was taken at a hotel in Los Angeles at a martial arts convention in 2016.
Clark Tang made this flyer to explain his philosophy on Wing Chun Kung Fu. The upper photo was taken at a hotel in Los Angeles at a martial arts convention in 2016.
Clark Tang with his daughter, Kimberly Tang, when she was about 1 year old in Artesia, CA 2019. Clark is separated from his wife, but remains close to his daughter and is active in her care. Kimberly studies martial arts already. Clark feels she has many characteristics of his grandmother.
Clark Tang with his daughter, Kimberly Tang, when she was about 1 year old in Artesia, CA 2019. Clark is separated from his wife, but remains close to his daughter and is active in her care. Kimberly studies martial arts already. Clark feels she has many characteristics of his grandmother.
Robert Wall, a karate expert, who appeared in several Bruce Lee movies including, “Enter the Dragon,” was Clark’s daughter’s godfather. He died in 2022. Photo taken in Artesia, CA 2020.
Robert Wall, a karate expert, who appeared in several Bruce Lee movies including, “Enter the Dragon,” was Clark’s daughter’s godfather. He died in 2022. Photo taken in Artesia, CA 2020.
An add for Shihan Essence featuring Clark Tang.
An add for Shihan Essence featuring Clark Tang.

Dan Durke

Biography

Born in 1968 in Takeo, Cambodia, Dan’s family moved to Phnom Penh shortly before the Civil War began and then to Battambang where his father was employed as an airplane mechanic for the U.S. Air Force.

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Following the Vietnamese army’s entry into Cambodia in 1979, Dan attempted to gain asylum in one of the refugee camps along the Thai border but was refused. He and thousands of other refugees were pushed back into Cambodia along the Dangrek Mountains, which was a jungle full of landmines. Many thousands of Cambodian refugees died as a result of this cruel mass atrocity. Dan crossed back into Thailand and this time gained access to Khao-I-Dang refugee camp. He was sponsored by a distant cousin to Houston, Texas, but soon moved to Long Beach, California. Dan graduated high school and went on to earn a degree in accounting at CSU Long Beach. He eventually became an accountant for CSULB and has recently retired. Dan wanted to participate in this project to record his experiences so that what happened is not forgotten.

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Dan Durke’s Khao-I-Dang documentation photo indicating he has been sponsored to the US. 1981.
Dan Durke’s Khao-I-Dang documentation photo indicating he has been sponsored to the US. 1981.
Dan Durke (2nd from left in white t-shirt) at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, 1981. Dan is being baptized by a 7th Day Adventist missionary. Dan wanted to learn English and the Church had English classes, but only for those who converted to the faith. Dan understood he could join the classes if he was baptized, but did not fully understand what that meant. He was able to attend English classes, but did not continue with the church when he left Khao-I-Dang.
Dan Durke (2nd from left in white t-shirt) at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, 1981. Dan is being baptized by a 7th Day Adventist missionary. Dan wanted to learn English and the Church had English classes, but only for those who converted to the faith. Dan understood he could join the classes if he was baptized, but did not fully understand what that meant. He was able to attend English classes, but did not continue with the church when he left Khao-I-Dang.
Dan Durke with friends from the orphanage at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand c. 1981. From left to right: To, Dan Durke, Prak, and Wan. He doesn’t remember the names of the two on the right. In 2021 Dan posted the photo on FaceBook to see if he could find any of them. To lives in Canada, Prak lives in Buena Park and Wan is a police officer in Lynne, MA.
Dan Durke with friends from the orphanage at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand c. 1981. From left to right: To, Dan Durke, Prak, and Wan. He doesn’t remember the names of the two on the right. In 2021 Dan posted the photo on FaceBook to see if he could find any of them. To lives in Canada, Prak lives in Buena Park and Wan is a police officer in Lynne, MA.
Dan Durke in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1981 or 82. The woman in the yellow t-shirt, Kong, was preparing to leave and asked that someone take the photo for her. Dan did not know the rest of the people in the photo.
Dan Durke in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1981 or 82. The woman in the yellow t-shirt, Kong, was preparing to leave and asked that someone take the photo for her. Dan did not know the rest of the people in the photo.
Dan Durke studied hard to become proficient in English. He was hired to work for the Catholic Relief Services office in their nutrition department. He is pictured here talking on the phone with the UNHCR (United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees) office at the transit center in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, c. 1982. The star behind him is a common Christmas decoration.
Dan Durke studied hard to become proficient in English. He was hired to work for the Catholic Relief Services office in their nutrition department. He is pictured here talking on the phone with the UNHCR (United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees) office at the transit center in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, c. 1982. The star behind him is a common Christmas decoration.
Dan Durke (2nd from left in white t-shirt) is pictured in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand with three distant relatives who escaped with him to Thailand, c. 1982. The group had pooled their money to hire someone to guide them safely through the mine-infested jungle to the Thai border. From left to right: Hun, Dan Durke, Klong, and Ly. Note the three red circles on Hun’s forehead. These circles result from a traditional treatment for illness, known as “chub” (cupping). Dan stayed in touch with Klong who lived in Stockton and worked as a truck driver. Hun has since passed away.
Dan Durke (2nd from left in white t-shirt) is pictured in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand with three distant relatives who escaped with him to Thailand, c. 1982. The group had pooled their money to hire someone to guide them safely through the mine-infested jungle to the Thai border. From left to right: Hun, Dan Durke, Klong, and Ly. Note the three red circles on Hun’s forehead. These circles result from a traditional treatment for illness, known as “chub” (cupping). Dan stayed in touch with Klong who lived in Stockton and worked as a truck driver. Hun has since passed away.
Dan Durke standing in front of his cousin’s red Impala in Long Beach, CA in 1983. This was the first car his cousin bought. The cousin sponsored Dan to the U.S.
Dan Durke standing in front of his cousin’s red Impala in Long Beach, CA in 1983. This was the first car his cousin bought. The cousin sponsored Dan to the U.S.
Dan Durke’s Gardena High School ID card from 1984-1985. Dan hadn’t changed his name yet and is identified by his original name: Maysak Doeuk. Dan graduated in 1987.
Dan Durke’s Gardena High School ID card from 1984-1985. Dan hadn’t changed his name yet and is identified by his original name: Maysak Doeuk. Dan graduated in 1987.
Dan Durke’s first visit to Universal Studio California in 1984 with a distant nephew.
Dan Durke’s first visit to Universal Studio California in 1984 with a distant nephew.
Dan Durke’s first visit to Redondo Beach, CA in 1984, with friends. He was about 19 years old. He recalls being stared at, maybe because he and his friends were wearing knee high socks at the beach.
Dan Durke’s first visit to Redondo Beach, CA in 1984, with friends. He was about 19 years old. He recalls being stared at, maybe because he and his friends were wearing knee high socks at the beach.
Dan Durke’s permit to reenter the United States issued by the Department of Justice in 1986.
Dan Durke’s permit to reenter the United States issued by the Department of Justice in 1986.
Dan Durke’s permit to reenter the U.S. issued by the Department of Justice in 1986. Note that Dan has added an American middle name and changed the spelling of his last name. He is now identified as Maysak Robert Doiuk. His country of claimed nationality is stateless.
Dan Durke’s permit to reenter the U.S. issued by the Department of Justice in 1986. Note that Dan has added an American middle name and changed the spelling of his last name. He is now identified as Maysak Robert Doiuk. His country of claimed nationality is stateless.
Dan Durke’s visa to visit Greece in 1986.
Dan Durke’s visa to visit Greece in 1986.
Dan Durke and fiancée, Katherine Chao, at the home of Dan’s foster parents, Robert and Edith McHugh in Manhattan Beach 1989. McHugh was Dan’s Gardena High School math teacher. He knew that Dan needed a home and took him in from 1984 to 1990. The McHughs also had a son and daughter. Dan has stayed in touch with them.
Dan Durke and fiancée, Katherine Chao, at the home of Dan’s foster parents, Robert and Edith McHugh in Manhattan Beach 1989. McHugh was Dan’s Gardena High School math teacher. He knew that Dan needed a home and took him in from 1984 to 1990. The McHughs also had a son and daughter. Dan has stayed in touch with them.
Dan Durke and Dan’s fiancée, Katherine Chao, exchanging rings at Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA in 1989. From left to right: Katherine’s mother, Mouy Chao; Katherine Chao; Dan Durke; a distant relative, Hun; Katherine’s aunt. Dan thinks this may be when he first met Katherine’s family. Dan was in his second year of college and Katherine was finishing high school.
Dan Durke and Dan’s fiancée, Katherine Chao, exchanging rings at Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA in 1989. From left to right: Katherine’s mother, Mouy Chao; Katherine Chao; Dan Durke; a distant relative, Hun; Katherine’s aunt. Dan thinks this may be when he first met Katherine’s family. Dan was in his second year of college and Katherine was finishing high school.
Dan Durke and Katherine Chao on their wedding day in Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA 1991. Katherine was 21 years old and still in college.
Dan Durke and Katherine Chao on their wedding day in Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA 1991. Katherine was 21 years old and still in college.
Dan Durke and Katherine Chao on their wedding day at Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA 1991. It is customary for the couple to spend their wedding night in the bride’s family home. After they were married, Dan and Katherine shared a rented home with another couple.
Dan Durke and Katherine Chao on their wedding day at Katherine’s home in Alhambra, CA 1991. It is customary for the couple to spend their wedding night in the bride’s family home. After they were married, Dan and Katherine shared a rented home with another couple.
Dan Durke and Katherine Chao on their wedding day dressed to attend their wedding reception at a restaurant in Alhambra, CA 1991.
Dan Durke and Katherine Chao on their wedding day dressed to attend their wedding reception at a restaurant in Alhambra, CA 1991.
Dan Durke's wife and first child, Dustin, at their home. 1993.
Dan Durke’s wife and first child, Dustin, at their home. 1993.
Newborn, Deanna Durke, receiving a kiss from her older brother, Dustin (about 3 yrs old), in the Durke’s new home in Gardena, CA 1996.
Newborn, Deanna Durke, receiving a kiss from her older brother, Dustin (about 3 yrs old), in the Durke’s new home in Gardena, CA 1996.
The Durkes at Angkor Wat, Cambodia in 2002. This was the first trip for Katherine and the children to Cambodia. Left to right: Dustin, Deanna, Dan, and Katherine. Katherine and Dan have returned to Cambodia several times since then. Dan makes regular trips as a volunteer with the Cambodian Health Professionals Association of America (CHPAA).
The Durkes at Angkor Wat, Cambodia in 2002. This was the first trip for Katherine and the children to Cambodia. Left to right: Dustin, Deanna, Dan, and Katherine. Katherine and Dan have returned to Cambodia several times since then. Dan makes regular trips as a volunteer with the Cambodian Health Professionals Association of America (CHPAA).

Danielle Khim

Biography

Danielle Khim was born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia in 1969. After the Khmer Rouge came to power her family members were moved into segregated labor camps.

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Following the arrival of the Vietnamese military, Danielle traveled with her mother to the Thai border where they gained admission into the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp. They were sponsored relatively quickly by the International Rescue Committee. Danielle’s family settled in San Diego, California. In her senior year in high school, Danielle’s mother and stepfather moved to Rhode Island. She joined them after graduation but returned to California two years later to attend CSU Northridge. Driven by a desire to help others to find their inner strength to overcome trauma and achieve their goals, Danielle earned a certificate in hypnotherapy at the Tom Silver Institute and is now a Life Coach. Danielle is active in various events and organizations in the Cambodian Community. She is hopeful that by sharing her story she helps to empower others.

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Danielle Khim’s Father, Khun Cheng (seated, center front, looking at the camera), at the wedding of a first cousin in Phnom Penh, Cambodia c. 1970. Other people are relatives but their names are not known. This is the only photo Danielle has of her father which she received from her aunt. Most of Danielle’s memories of her father were from her mother.
Danielle Khim’s Father, Khun Cheng (seated, center front, looking at the camera), at the wedding of a first cousin in Phnom Penh, Cambodia c. 1970. Other people are relatives but their names are not known. This is the only photo Danielle has of her father which she received from her aunt. Most of Danielle’s memories of her father were from her mother.
Danielle Khim in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, 1979. This is the only photo Danielle has from her childhood.
Danielle Khim in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, 1979. This is the only photo Danielle has from her childhood.
Danielle Khim with classmates at a playground, perhaps at the San Diego Zoo, c. 1981. Danielle is not sure how old she is, but perhaps between 11 and 12 years old. Danielle remembers there were many Laotian, Vietnamese and Cambodian refugee children at her school. She recalls being bullied and getting into trouble for fighting.
Danielle Khim with classmates at a playground, perhaps at the San Diego Zoo, c. 1981. Danielle is not sure how old she is, but perhaps between 11 and 12 years old. Danielle remembers there were many Laotian, Vietnamese and Cambodian refugee children at her school. She recalls being bullied and getting into trouble for fighting.
A family party for Danielle Khim’s 12th birthday, in San Diego, CA, c. 1981. This was the only party Danielle was given. After her mother remarried, birthday celebrations were only held for her stepsisters.
A family party for Danielle Khim’s 12th birthday, in San Diego, CA, c. 1981. This was the only party Danielle was given. After her mother remarried, birthday celebrations were only held for her stepsisters.
Danielle Khim’s high school graduation photo in 1989. She went to Samuel Gompers Secondary School for 8th to 12th grades in San Diego, CA.
Danielle Khim’s high school graduation photo in 1989. She went to Samuel Gompers Secondary School for 8th to 12th grades in San Diego, CA.
Danielle Khim’s wedding photo (center, holding the umbrella) with her parents in Providence, Rhode Island, 1991.
Danielle Khim’s wedding photo (center, holding the umbrella) with her parents in Providence, Rhode Island, 1991.
Danielle Khim did a seminar with Laura Mia Lorenstzen on the Spirit of Greatness in San Diego, CA 2008. One of the exercises was to draw an image expressing something about your partner. Danielle’s partner drew rice fields and Danielle as a “dangel” who is happy and free.
Danielle Khim did a seminar with Laura Mia Lorenstzen on the Spirit of Greatness in San Diego, CA 2008. One of the exercises was to draw an image expressing something about your partner. Danielle’s partner drew rice fields and Danielle as a “dangel” who is happy and free.
Danielle Khim (R) with Nancy Lee on her talk show at Mark Twain Branch Library in Long Beach, CA 2016. At this time Danielle was moving into volunteer work as part of her journey to self-realization and reconnecting with the Cambodian community. She feels a strong commitment to the community.
Danielle Khim (R) with Nancy Lee on her talk show at Mark Twain Branch Library in Long Beach, CA 2016. At this time Danielle was moving into volunteer work as part of her journey to self-realization and reconnecting with the Cambodian community. She feels a strong commitment to the community.

Janet Vanniroth

Biography

Janet Panhchakrong Vanniroth was six or seven years old when the Khmer Rouge came to power.

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During that time, Janet and her mother lived in her grandmother’s village south of Phnom Penh. They remained there until the Vietnamese military came in 1979. They moved back to Phnom Penh for a short time, but headed for the Thai border after hearing that her father was in the U.S. The two eventually made it to Nong Samet Refugee Camp and shortly after moved to the Khao-I-Dang camp. They contacted Janet’s father, but he had remarried, so they had to find another sponsor in the U.S. Shortly after arriving in the U.S., Janet’s mother remarried and they settled in Hawaiian Gardens, California. Janet was a quick learner and after graduating from high school, she attended CSU Long Beach. She earned a degree in Business Finance. Janet is currently an Accountant at CSU Dominguez Hills and lives in Long Beach.

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Janet Vanniroth’s grandfather, Korn Nguon, Phnom Penh, c. 1970. He was a physician. He committee suicide during the Khmer Rouge.
Janet Vanniroth’s grandfather, Korn Nguon, Phnom Penh, c. 1970. He was a physician. He committee suicide during the Khmer Rouge.
Janet Vanniroth (in red dress) with her mother (far left) and friends in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand in 1980. Left to right are Janet’s mother, Vannsath Nguon; Janet Vanniroth; her mother’s friend, Phouny; unidentified friend and that woman’s godson, Edward. All the adults in the photo worked at the Khao-I-Dang orphanage center.
Janet Vanniroth (in red dress) with her mother (far left) and friends in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand in 1980. Left to right are Janet’s mother, Vannsath Nguon; Janet Vanniroth; her mother’s friend, Phouny; unidentified friend and that woman’s godson, Edward. All the adults in the photo worked at the Khao-I-Dang orphanage center.
Janet Vanniroth in the orphanage center where her mother worked in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1980. Woven mats were used to divide the space into rooms for the children. Staff, like Janet’s mother, lived in the office areas, while their children slept in the orphanage center with the other children. The staff prepared meals and dining was communal. When Janet’s mother learned that her husband had escaped to the U.S., she had the photo taken to send to him.
Janet Vanniroth in the orphanage center where her mother worked in the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1980. Woven mats were used to divide the space into rooms for the children. Staff, like Janet’s mother, lived in the office areas, while their children slept in the orphanage center with the other children. The staff prepared meals and dining was communal. When Janet’s mother learned that her husband had escaped to the U.S., she had the photo taken to send to him.
Janet Vanniroth with children at the orphanage at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, Thailand, 1980. Janet is in the second row, wearing a red dress. Her mother, Vannsath Nguon, is at the far right wearing a white CRS (Catholic Relief Services) t-shirt with black pants. CRS may have been overseeing the orphanage operations. The woman at the far left, also wearing the CRS t-shirt, worked at the orphanage. Janet identified her as Auntie Ray. She is not a blood relative, but it is a common practice in Cambodia to address everyone using kinship terms. The rest of the children are unidentified. Janet stayed in touch with Auntie Ray and visited her in Canada where she received sponsorship.
Janet Vanniroth with children at the orphanage at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, Thailand, 1980. Janet is in the second row, wearing a red dress. Her mother, Vannsath Nguon, is at the far right wearing a white CRS (Catholic Relief Services) t-shirt with black pants. CRS may have been overseeing the orphanage operations. The woman at the far left, also wearing the CRS t-shirt, worked at the orphanage. Janet identified her as Auntie Ray. She is not a blood relative, but it is a common practice in Cambodia to address everyone using kinship terms. The rest of the children are unidentified. Janet stayed in touch with Auntie Ray and visited her in Canada where she received sponsorship.
Janet Vanniroth with children and staff at the orphanage at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, Thailand, 1980. In the back row, from left is one of the orphanage staff “mothers” (unidentified) and her husband (unidentified); next is Auntie Ray (She is not a blood relative, but it is a common practice in Cambodia to address everyone using kinship terms); other orphanage staff are unidentified. Janet is in the front row, 2nd from right, wearing a dress. The rest of the children are unidentified. Janet’s mother worked at the orphanage for nearly a year (1979 to 1980).
Janet Vanniroth with children and staff at the orphanage at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, Thailand, 1980. In the back row, from left is one of the orphanage staff “mothers” (unidentified) and her husband (unidentified); next is Auntie Ray (She is not a blood relative, but it is a common practice in Cambodia to address everyone using kinship terms); other orphanage staff are unidentified. Janet is in the front row, 2nd from right, wearing a dress. The rest of the children are unidentified. Janet’s mother worked at the orphanage for nearly a year (1979 to 1980).
Janet Vanniroth (center, front row) with some of the staff “mothers” who worked in the orphanage center at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, Thailand, 1980. Janet’s mother, Vannsath Nguon, is 3rd from right wearing the black and white striped top.
Janet Vanniroth (center, front row) with some of the staff “mothers” who worked in the orphanage center at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, Thailand, 1980. Janet’s mother, Vannsath Nguon, is 3rd from right wearing the black and white striped top.
Janet Vanniroth (in red) in front of the orphanage at the Khao-I-Dang refugee center, Thailand, 1980. Janet is with her mother, Vannsath Nguon (in white t-shirt) and a staff friend, Yanine Ray (in blue), with her son. Yanine’s son now lives in Colorado and is an optometrist.
Janet Vanniroth (in red) in front of the orphanage at the Khao-I-Dang refugee center, Thailand, 1980. Janet is with her mother, Vannsath Nguon (in white t-shirt) and a staff friend, Yanine Ray (in blue), with her son. Yanine’s son now lives in Colorado and is an optometrist.
Janet Vanniroth’s mother, Vannsath Nguon, at the refugee processing center in Chonburi, Thailand, 1980. This is her official photo documenting her sponsorship to the U.S. has been approved.
Janet Vanniroth’s mother, Vannsath Nguon, at the refugee processing center in Chonburi, Thailand, 1980. This is her official photo documenting her sponsorship to the U.S. has been approved.
Janet Vanniroth at the refugee processing center in Chonburi, Thailand, 1980. This is her official photo documenting that her sponsorship to the U.S. has been approved. The board has Janet’s full Khmer name: Pachrong Vanniroth.
Janet Vanniroth at the refugee processing center in Chonburi, Thailand, 1980. This is her official photo documenting that her sponsorship to the U.S. has been approved. The board has Janet’s full Khmer name: Pachrong Vanniroth.
Janet Vanniroth in the dance class at Chonburi, Thailand, 1981. Janet is 5th from the left wearing a peal necklace and smiling. She is standing next to the dance teacher, in the yellow blouse. Janet recalls that most of the girls were sponsored to the U.S. but she was not able to get addresses to stay in touch. She saw the teacher once in Long Beach, CA.
Janet Vanniroth in the dance class at Chonburi, Thailand, 1981. Janet is 5th from the left wearing a peal necklace and smiling. She is standing next to the dance teacher, in the yellow blouse. Janet recalls that most of the girls were sponsored to the U.S. but she was not able to get addresses to stay in touch. She saw the teacher once in Long Beach, CA.
Janet Vanniroth’s father, Hien Vanniroth, at Site Two refugee camp in Aranyaprathet, Thailand, 1982 (appx. 50 yrs old). He was a military physician during the Khmer Republic under Lon Nol, living in Oddar Meanchey Province. He was evacuated to the U.S. in April 1975 and lived in Long Beach, CA, where he worked in the coroner’s office until 1982 when he joined Prince Sihanouk’s FUNCIPEC party at Site Two. He returned to Phnom Penh when Cambodia reopened and was appointed Minister of Culture and Religion probably in 1993. He died in Phnom Penh in 2004.
Janet Vanniroth’s father, Hien Vanniroth, at Site Two refugee camp in Aranyaprathet, Thailand, 1982 (appx. 50 yrs old). He was a military physician during the Khmer Republic under Lon Nol, living in Oddar Meanchey Province. He was evacuated to the U.S. in April 1975 and lived in Long Beach, CA, where he worked in the coroner’s office until 1982 when he joined Prince Sihanouk’s FUNCIPEC party at Site Two. He returned to Phnom Penh when Cambodia reopened and was appointed Minister of Culture and Religion probably in 1993. He died in Phnom Penh in 2004.
Janet Vanniroth’s step-grandfather, Chea Hem. He had been a monk but disrobed to marry her grandmother after her divorce. Janet lived with her grandparents before the Khmer Rouge took over in 1975. She was very close to Chea Hem.
Janet Vanniroth’s step-grandfather, Chea Hem. He had been a monk but disrobed to marry her grandmother after her divorce. Janet lived with her grandparents before the Khmer Rouge took over in 1975. She was very close to Chea Hem.
Janet Vanniroth with her close friend, Sarah Wu, in the school football field, Artesia, CA 1987. They have been friends since junior high school.
Janet Vanniroth with her close friend, Sarah Wu, in the school football field, Artesia, CA 1987. They have been friends since junior high school.
Janet Vanniroth’s graduation photo from Artesia High School in 1988.
Janet Vanniroth’s graduation photo from Artesia High School in 1988.
Janet Vanniroth when she graduated from California State University Long Beach with a B.S. in Finance, 1993.
Janet Vanniroth when she graduated from California State University Long Beach with a B.S. in Finance, 1993.
Diana Chea (left) Janet’s younger sister, with their grandmother, Sem Som in Cambodia, 2007. Diana went to Cambodia as part of her college education. It was her first time meeting her grandmother who is 87.
Diana Chea (left) Janet’s younger sister, with their grandmother, Sem Som in Cambodia, 2007. Diana went to Cambodia as part of her college education. It was her first time meeting her grandmother who is 87.
Janet Vannaroth’s mother, Vannsath Nguon (L) and Janet’s grandmother, Sem Som (R), Phnom Penh, Cambodia, 2007. Janet was very close to her grandmother who took care of her before and during the Khmer Rouge. Her grandmother was 87 at the time and died at the age of 91.
Janet Vannaroth’s mother, Vannsath Nguon (L) and Janet’s grandmother, Sem Som (R), Phnom Penh, Cambodia, 2007. Janet was very close to her grandmother who took care of her before and during the Khmer Rouge. Her grandmother was 87 at the time and died at the age of 91.
Janet Vanniroth with her husband, Dara Vuth, at Hokkaido Restaurant in Long Beach, CA 2008.
Janet Vanniroth with her husband, Dara Vuth, at Hokkaido Restaurant in Long Beach, CA 2008.
Janet Vanniroth with family at Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia, 2012. From left to right: Janet’s cousin, Sovanna Hem, little girl unidentified; her cousin’s daughter, Nith Kea; her aunt, Sovanda Nguon; Janet Vanniroth; and her mother, Vannsath Nguon.
Janet Vanniroth with family at Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia, 2012. From left to right: Janet’s cousin, Sovanna Hem, little girl unidentified; her cousin’s daughter, Nith Kea; her aunt, Sovanda Nguon; Janet Vanniroth; and her mother, Vannsath Nguon.
Some of Janet Vanniroth’s family at her Grandmother’s 100 day memorial service in Kandal Province, Cambodia, 2012. From left to right: Janet’s mother’s cousin; her mother’s sister, Sovanda Nguon; unidentified boy; her maternal uncle, Makara Nguon; her mother’s stepmother, YeYah; and her mother, Vannsath Nguon.
Some of Janet Vanniroth’s family at her Grandmother’s 100 day memorial service in Kandal Province, Cambodia, 2012. From left to right: Janet’s mother’s cousin; her mother’s sister, Sovanda Nguon; unidentified boy; her maternal uncle, Makara Nguon; her mother’s stepmother, YeYah; and her mother, Vannsath Nguon.
Janet and her husband, Dara Vuth, at a Coffee Bean and Tea store in Long Beach, CA, 2019. Dara’s mother died in January 2019 and he became a monk for a short time. After a parent’s death, it is customary for the son or son-in-law to shave his head and become a monk for a short period of time. The merit he earns by doing this goes to the deceased. Dara’s hair is growing back.
Janet and her husband, Dara Vuth, at a Coffee Bean and Tea store in Long Beach, CA, 2019. Dara’s mother died in January 2019 and he became a monk for a short time. After a parent’s death, it is customary for the son or son-in-law to shave his head and become a monk for a short period of time. The merit he earns by doing this goes to the deceased. Dara’s hair is growing back.
Janet Vanniroth with friends in Long Beach, CA 2022. From left to right in front: Maly Theng, Janet, Lisa Sam, Rena Bo. In back is Lisa Sam, visiting from the East Coast. Lisa and Molly went to Cal State Long Beach. Rena Bo worked at United Cambodian Community, a mutual assistance association in Long Beach, with Janet. Janet now works at California State University Dominguez Hills.
Janet Vanniroth with friends in Long Beach, CA 2022. From left to right in front: Maly Theng, Janet, Lisa Sam, Rena Bo. In back is Lisa Sam, visiting from the East Coast. Lisa and Molly went to Cal State Long Beach. Rena Bo worked at United Cambodian Community, a mutual assistance association in Long Beach, with Janet. Janet now works at California State University Dominguez Hills.

Julie Daniels

Biography

Julie was born in September 1972 on a farm in S’aang, a district in the Kandal Province, Cambodia.

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She was three years old when the Khmer Rouge took over in 1975. Her family joined with her mother’s sister in Phnom Penh after being separated from her father who was an Army officer and who died at the military base. Julie was too young to work in the child labor camps and didn’t have many memories from during the Khmer Rouge years. Her family entered Kao-I-Dang sometime in 1978, very soon after the Vietnamese entered Cambodia. A church group sponsored them to come to the U.S. Julie and her family first settled in Coal City, Illinois and moved several times before settling permanently in Long Beach, CA. She has a master’s in business administration and works as the Academic Administrative Assistant at Long Beach City College. Julie has been involved in many Cambodia Town initiatives through volunteering. She is also founder of C-NOW (Cambodians Networking Our World) whose mission is to inform, connect, and engage the Cambodian community.

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Julie Daniels and her family after arriving in the U.S. in Coal City, Illinois in 1980. Back row, left to right: unidentified woman; Julie’s brother, Logan; unidentified man; Julie’s mother, Samoth Ros, holding Janet's baby brother. Front row, left to right: brother, Todd; and Julie Daniels.
Julie Daniels and her family after arriving in the U.S. in Coal City, Illinois in 1980. Back row, left to right: unidentified woman; Julie’s brother, Logan; unidentified man; Julie’s mother, Samoth Ros, holding Janet’s baby brother. Front row, left to right: brother, Todd; and Julie Daniels.
Julie Daniels with two of her brothers, in Coal City, Illinois 1980. From left to right: unidentified boy, Julie’s brother, Todd; Julie Daniels; her brother, Logan, unidentified boy.
Julie Daniels with two of her brothers, in Coal City, Illinois 1980. From left to right: unidentified boy, Julie’s brother, Todd; Julie Daniels; her brother, Logan, unidentified boy.
Julie Daniels’ mother, Samoth Ros (right), with Julie’s “adopted” American mother, Melody Fisher, in Coal City, Illinois 1980.
Julie Daniels’ mother, Samoth Ros (right), with Julie’s “adopted” American mother, Melody Fisher, in Coal City, Illinois 1980.
Julie Daniels’ first Christmas in Coal City, Illinois, 1980, with her “adopted” American father, Bill Fisher. Bill and his wife, Melody, sponsored the family to the U.S.
Julie Daniels’ first Christmas in Coal City, Illinois, 1980, with her “adopted” American father, Bill Fisher. Bill and his wife, Melody, sponsored the family to the U.S.
Julie’s mother, Samoth Ros, celebrating her first birthday in the U.S. in Coal City, Illinois, 1981.
Julie’s mother, Samoth Ros, celebrating her first birthday in the U.S. in Coal City, Illinois, 1981.
Julie Daniels (R) and her brother, Todd, on their first camping trip in Illinois 1982.
Julie Daniels (R) and her brother, Todd, on their first camping trip in Illinois 1982.
Julie Daniel’s mother, Samoth Ros, and brother, Todd on their first camping trip in Illinois 1982.
Julie Daniel’s mother, Samoth Ros, and brother, Todd on their first camping trip in Illinois 1982.
Julie Daniels in Fort Worth, TX, 1983.
Julie Daniels in Fort Worth, TX, 1983.
Julie Daniels’ family in Fort Worth, Texas, 1984. They lived with the Sok family until they could find a rental of their own. Julie’s mother, Samoth Ros, is on the left in the white blouse, and Julie is to the far right in white top and shorts. Others in the photo are not identified.
Julie Daniels’ family in Fort Worth, Texas, 1984. They lived with the Sok family until they could find a rental of their own. Julie’s mother, Samoth Ros, is on the left in the white blouse, and Julie is to the far right in white top and shorts. Others in the photo are not identified.
Julie Daniel’s mother with Julie’s second brother, Sam, in Fort Worth, TX 1984.
Julie Daniel’s mother with Julie’s second brother, Sam, in Fort Worth, TX 1984.
Julie Daniels with her family in Fort Worth, TX, 1984. From left to right: Julie Daniels, her brother, Todd; baby brother, Sam; and her mother, Samoth Ros.
Julie Daniels with her family in Fort Worth, TX, 1984. From left to right: Julie Daniels, her brother, Todd; baby brother, Sam; and her mother, Samoth Ros.
Julie Daniels’ brother, Todd, standing in front of the car they used to drive from Fort Worth, TX to California in 1987.
Julie Daniels’ brother, Todd, standing in front of the car they used to drive from Fort Worth, TX to California in 1987.
Julie Daniels’ brother, Sam, at their house in Long Beach, CA 1988. The family lived with relatives for a while Before moving to a one bedroom house. The Sok family moved to California sometime later and all 12 lived in the house together until the Sok’s were able to move out on their own.
Julie Daniels’ brother, Sam, at their house in Long Beach, CA 1988. The family lived with relatives for a while Before moving to a one bedroom house. The Sok family moved to California sometime later and all 12 lived in the house together until the Sok’s were able to move out on their own.
Studio portrait of Julie Daniels with her siblings in Long Beach, CA 1990. Back row, left to right: Julie’s brother, Sam; Julie; her brother, Todd. The other children are unidentified. She stole money from her mother to have this portrait done.
Studio portrait of Julie Daniels with her siblings in Long Beach, CA 1990. Back row, left to right: Julie’s brother, Sam; Julie; her brother, Todd. The other children are unidentified. She stole money from her mother to have this portrait done.
Julie Daniels after giving birth to her daughter, Joleena in Knoxville, TN, 1991.
Julie Daniels after giving birth to her daughter, Joleena in Knoxville, TN, 1991.
Julie Daniels after giving birth to her son, Herbert in Knoxville, TN, 1992. Julie’s daughter, Joleena, is in Julie’s lap.
Julie Daniels after giving birth to her son, Herbert in Knoxville, TN, 1992. Julie’s daughter, Joleena, is in Julie’s lap.
Julie Daniels’ two children, Joleena (R) and Herbert, in Prescott, AZ, 1995. The family was on their way back to California from living in Tennessee following Julie’s divorce.
Julie Daniels’ two children, Joleena (R) and Herbert, in Prescott, AZ, 1995. The family was on their way back to California from living in Tennessee following Julie’s divorce.
Julie Daniels with her son, after his graduation from basic training in the Air Force at Lackland, TX 2012. Left to right: Julie; her son, Herbert; her daughter, Joleena; and Julie's mother Samoth Ros. Both of Julie’s children joined the Air Force after graduating high school. Julie’s daughter, Joleena, graduated from basic training in 2011.
Julie Daniels with her son, after his graduation from basic training in the Air Force at Lackland, TX 2012. Left to right: Julie; her son, Herbert; her daughter, Joleena; and Julie’s mother Samoth Ros. Both of Julie’s children joined the Air Force after graduating high school. Julie’s daughter, Joleena, graduated from basic training in 2011.
Julie Daniels with her mother, Samoth Ros, at Julie’s graduation with a B.A. in Business Administration, Orlando, FL, 2016. She was the first in her family to earn an advanced degree. She worked hard and graduated with honors as a way to honor her mother’s challenges and struggles to raise Julie and her siblings in a new country.
Julie Daniels with her mother, Samoth Ros, at Julie’s graduation with a B.A. in Business Administration, Orlando, FL, 2016. She was the first in her family to earn an advanced degree. She worked hard and graduated with honors as a way to honor her mother’s challenges and struggles to raise Julie and her siblings in a new country.
Julie Daniels (standing, 3rd from left) at a surprise 60th birthday party for her family’s sponsor, Melody Fisher (front row, 2nd from right), in Prescott, AZ 2016. Melody and Bill Fisher (front row on right), sponsored Julie’s family and several others from Cambodia. Some of these families are in the photo.
Julie Daniels (standing, 3rd from left) at a surprise 60th birthday party for her family’s sponsor, Melody Fisher (front row, 2nd from right), in Prescott, AZ 2016. Melody and Bill Fisher (front row on right), sponsored Julie’s family and several others from Cambodia. Some of these families are in the photo.
Julie Daniels with her children, Herbert (L) and Joleena, at Julie's graduation with an Masters in Business Administration from Walden University, 2018. Julie feels it is important to lead by example. After her children graduated from high school, Julie joined the Air Force, after which she earned two degrees in 3 1⁄2 years with highest honors. She wanted to demonstrate to her children that no matter how hard things get, if you focus on your goals and never give up, you will accomplish them.
Julie Daniels with her children, Herbert (L) and Joleena, at Julie’s graduation with an Masters in Business Administration from Walden University, 2018. Julie feels it is important to lead by example. After her children graduated from high school, Julie joined the Air Force, after which she earned two degrees in 3 1⁄2 years with highest honors. She wanted to demonstrate to her children that no matter how hard things get, if you focus on your goals and never give up, you will accomplish them.

Kam Lou Lopez

Biography

Kam Lou Lopez was born in Chbar Ampov, a small village southeast of Phnom Penh, which is now part of the greater Phnom Penh metropolitan area.

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Kam was six or seven years old when Phnom Penh fell to the Khmer Rouge. The family was forced to move to a mountain area in Pursat where Kam was assigned to a child labor camp. When the Vietnamese entered Cambodia, the family was caught between the retreating Khmer Rouge soldiers and advancing Vietnamese. They returned to Chbar Ampov for a short time, but then headed for the Thai border and into the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp. Kam’s brother sponsored them to Murfreesboro, Tennessee where Kam attended high school. About one year later they moved to join an aunt in Los Angeles. She graduated from CSU Los Angeles with a degree in marketing, but found her passion was working as an advocate for victims of domestic violence and sexual assault. Kam is currently a Services Coordinator III, working with low-income API older adult immigrants with limited English.

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Kam Lou Lopez with her family by the ocean in Cambodia, 1965. From left to right, Kam’s older sister, Amada; her brother, William Lou; her mother, Fan Phar, holding Kam; and her father, Man Lou.
Kam Lou Lopez with her family by the ocean in Cambodia, 1965. From left to right, Kam’s older sister, Amada; her brother, William Lou; her mother, Fan Phar, holding Kam; and her father, Man Lou.
Kam Lou Lopez with family in their village southeast of Phnom Penh, near the Mekong River, Cambodia 1980. From left to right: Kam’s older sister, Amanda; older brother, William; younger sister, Meicy Lou; mother, Fang Phar; Kam; and her father, Man Lou. After the Khmer Rouge period ended in 1979, the family went back to their village where her father tried to start his watch business again, but he was warned to leave. Her father suspected the family might be separated during the journey to the border, so he had this photo taken of them together.
Kam Lou Lopez with family in their village southeast of Phnom Penh, near the Mekong River, Cambodia 1980. From left to right: Kam’s older sister, Amanda; older brother, William; younger sister, Meicy Lou; mother, Fang Phar; Kam; and her father, Man Lou. After the Khmer Rouge period ended in 1979, the family went back to their village where her father tried to start his watch business again, but he was warned to leave. Her father suspected the family might be separated during the journey to the border, so he had this photo taken of them together.
Kam Lou Lopez (left) in her village southeast of Phnom Penh, near the Mekong River, Cambodia 1980. Kam does not remember who took the picture or the occasion, but because she was wearing a nice blouse, she thinks it may have been a celebration. The woman on the right was a neighbor, but Kam does not remember her name.
Kam Lou Lopez (left) in her village southeast of Phnom Penh, near the Mekong River, Cambodia 1980. Kam does not remember who took the picture or the occasion, but because she was wearing a nice blouse, she thinks it may have been a celebration. The woman on the right was a neighbor, but Kam does not remember her name.
Kam Lou Lopez’s family at a holding facility (“prison”) before being accepted into the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1981. Kam is in the back on the right holding a baby. Her sister, Meicy, is on the left in the black shirt. The other children are unidentified.
Kam Lou Lopez’s family at a holding facility (“prison”) before being accepted into the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1981. Kam is in the back on the right holding a baby. Her sister, Meicy, is on the left in the black shirt. The other children are unidentified.
Kam Lou Lopez’s family in a photo documenting that they had been accepted as refugees into the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1981. From left to right: Kam’s father, Man Lou; mother, Fang Phar; Kam; her sister, Meicy; cousin, Seav (cousin’s last name unknown). One of Kam’s uncles sponsored them to the U.S. The family took the uncle’s last name, Sy. When they became U.S. citizens they changed it back to Lou.
Kam Lou Lopez’s family in a photo documenting that they had been accepted as refugees into the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1981. From left to right: Kam’s father, Man Lou; mother, Fang Phar; Kam; her sister, Meicy; cousin, Seav (cousin’s last name unknown). One of Kam’s uncles sponsored them to the U.S. The family took the uncle’s last name, Sy. When they became U.S. citizens they changed it back to Lou.
Kam Lou Lopez (front row, 2nd from left with long hair) with her family waiting to leave for the processing center in the Philippines before heading to the U.S., 1982. Their friends from Khao-I-Dang refugee camp came to say good-bye. Back row: Kam’s father, Man Lou (3rd from left) and her mother, Frang Phar, is third from the right. Other people unidentified.
Kam Lou Lopez (front row, 2nd from left with long hair) with her family waiting to leave for the processing center in the Philippines before heading to the U.S., 1982. Their friends from Khao-I-Dang refugee camp came to say good-bye. Back row: Kam’s father, Man Lou (3rd from left) and her mother, Frang Phar, is third from the right. Other people unidentified.
Kam Lou Lopez with family and friends at the processing center in Bataan, Philippines, 1983. Her father, Man Lou, is 2nd from left; her mother, Fang Phar, is 4th from right; and her sister, Meicy Lou, is 2nd from right.
Kam Lou Lopez with family and friends at the processing center in Bataan, Philippines, 1983. Her father, Man Lou, is 2nd from left; her mother, Fang Phar, is 4th from right; and her sister, Meicy Lou, is 2nd from right.
A picnic outside the Bataan, Philippines processing camp, 1983. The bearded man was Steven (last name not remembered). He worked for Catholic Charities in the U.S. and was teaching Kam’s brother and sister there. Steven came to visit them in the camp in the Philippines.
A picnic outside the Bataan, Philippines processing camp, 1983. The bearded man was Steven (last name not remembered). He worked for Catholic Charities in the U.S. and was teaching Kam’s brother and sister there. Steven came to visit them in the camp in the Philippines.
Kam Lou Lopez’s family in their two bedroom apartment in Marlborough, TN 1984. From left to right: Kam’s cousin, Avery; her uncle, Sy, who sponsored them; her mother, Fang Phar; Uncle Sy’s wife (in back wearing blue blouse), Aung Lucy; Kam’s sister, Meicy Lou; her father (in blue shirt) Man Lou; and cousin (in front far right) Seav.
Kam Lou Lopez’s family in their two bedroom apartment in Marlborough, TN 1984. From left to right: Kam’s cousin, Avery; her uncle, Sy, who sponsored them; her mother, Fang Phar; Uncle Sy’s wife (in back wearing blue blouse), Aung Lucy; Kam’s sister, Meicy Lou; her father (in blue shirt) Man Lou; and cousin (in front far right) Seav.
Kam Lou Lopez with her parents for her graduation from Franklin High School, Los Angeles 1988. From left to right: Kam’s father, Man Lou; her mother, Fang Phar; and Kam.
Kam Lou Lopez with her parents for her graduation from Franklin High School, Los Angeles 1988. From left to right: Kam’s father, Man Lou; her mother, Fang Phar; and Kam.
Kam Lou Lopez’s graduation from California State University Los Angeles, 1996, with a B.A. in marketing. From left to right: unidentified friend; sister, Meicy Lou; Kam; and sister-in-law, Lynh Lee.
Kam Lou Lopez’s graduation from California State University Los Angeles, 1996, with a B.A. in marketing. From left to right: unidentified friend; sister, Meicy Lou; Kam; and sister-in-law, Lynh Lee.
Kam Lou Lopez (front row, 2nd from right), was a 2008 recipient of the Sunshine Peace Award, funded by the Buffet family of Wilmington, North Carolina. Kam was among twenty awardees selected from 150 nominations. The award seeks to honor recipients for their work to bring hope, healing and safety to survivors of Domestic Violence. The foundation brings recipients to Wilmington, NC to receive their awards.
Kam Lou Lopez (front row, 2nd from right), was a 2008 recipient of the Sunshine Peace Award, funded by the Buffet family of Wilmington, North Carolina. Kam was among twenty awardees selected from 150 nominations. The award seeks to honor recipients for their work to bring hope, healing and safety to survivors of Domestic Violence. The foundation brings recipients to Wilmington, NC to receive their awards.
Kam Lou Lopez (3rd from right) with fellow graduates from the National Women of Color Leadership Foundation, San Diego, CA 2015. Kam was selected to represent the Center for Pacific Asian Family. The award paid for 1.5 years of classes where she learned grant writing, self knowledge, and how to better help the underserved. At the completion of the course, awardees worked in a culturally competent, community-serving program.
Kam Lou Lopez (3rd from right) with fellow graduates from the National Women of Color Leadership Foundation, San Diego, CA 2015. Kam was selected to represent the Center for Pacific Asian Family. The award paid for 1.5 years of classes where she learned grant writing, self knowledge, and how to better help the underserved. At the completion of the course, awardees worked in a culturally competent, community-serving program.
Kam Lou Lopez’s bio for the Center for Pacific Asian Family (CPAF),San Diego, CA 2015. For Kam “real freedom” is having a mind, body, and soul free from violence.
Kam Lou Lopez’s bio for the Center for Pacific Asian Family (CPAF),San Diego, CA 2015. For Kam “real freedom” is having a mind, body, and soul free from violence.

Monorom Neth

Biography

Born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, Monorom was five or six years old when the Khmer Rouge took control of the country in 1975.

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He and his family were part of the mass evacuation from the city. After walking for days, they were put on a truck and then a train that took them to a small village near Battambang in northwest Cambodia. Monorom’s family was separated into different labor camps, but because he was so young, he stayed with his mother who worked in the fields all day. One of his fondest memories from that time was when his mother brought him a handful of rice with some rock salt. After the Vietnamese entered Cambodia in 1979, Monorom and his mother reunited with some remaining extended family. Together they made the dangerous journey to the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand. An uncle, who was evacuated from Cambodia in 1975, was living in Norwalk, California and he sponsored the family to the U.S. in 1983. Monorom is concerned about how the genocide he lived through overshadows the rest of Cambodia’s 2000-year history. He volunteers in the community to help preserve and teach about Cambodian culture so the next generation will know their culture is so much more.

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Monorom Neth’s grandfather before the Khmer Rouge took over Cambodia, c. 1960.
Monorom Neth’s grandfather before the Khmer Rouge took over Cambodia, c. 1960.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van in what was her best outfit (green top), Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. Many photos from that time period show her dressed in this outfit as they had very few clothes.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van in what was her best outfit (green top), Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. Many photos from that time period show her dressed in this outfit as they had very few clothes.
Monorom Neth with family in a temple in Khao-I Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. From left to right: sister, Somealy Neth; Monorom’s mother, Om Van; unnamed person, Monorom Neth.
Monorom Neth with family in a temple in Khao-I Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. From left to right: sister, Somealy Neth; Monorom’s mother, Om Van; unnamed person, Monorom Neth.
Monorom Neth (left) and his older sister, Somealy, in a makeshift bedroom in Khao-I Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. Note the bed is made from bamboo.
Monorom Neth (left) and his older sister, Somealy, in a makeshift bedroom in Khao-I Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. Note the bed is made from bamboo.
Monorom Neth with his friends from Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. Standing, from left, unnamed person, Ratana Nhem, and unnamed person. Monorom Neth is sitting in front of them.
Monorom Neth with his friends from Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979. Standing, from left, unnamed person, Ratana Nhem, and unnamed person. Monorom Neth is sitting in front of them.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, with her ID number documenting she has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi, Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, with her ID number documenting she has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi, Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980.
Monorom Neth’s older sister, Somealea Neth, with her ID number documenting she has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980. Somealea was probably in her late teens. Another older sister was married and went to the U.S. under a different sponsor.
Monorom Neth’s older sister, Somealea Neth, with her ID number documenting she has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980. Somealea was probably in her late teens. Another older sister was married and went to the U.S. under a different sponsor.
Monorom Neth’s sister, Somealy Neth, with her ID number documenting she has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980. Somealy was two or three years older than Monorom, so she is 12-13 years old at the time.
Monorom Neth’s sister, Somealy Neth, with her ID number documenting she has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980. Somealy was two or three years older than Monorom, so she is 12-13 years old at the time.
Monorom Neth’s brother, Sakarl Neth with his ID number documenting he has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980. He was probably 16-17 years old at the time.
Monorom Neth’s brother, Sakarl Neth with his ID number documenting he has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1980. He was probably 16-17 years old at the time.
Monorom Neth with his ID number documenting he has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand 1980. He was probably 10-11 years old.
Monorom Neth with his ID number documenting he has been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand 1980. He was probably 10-11 years old.
Monorom Neth’s family with their family ID number documenting they have been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi, Thailand 1980. From left to right: Monorom’s mother, Om Van; sister, Somealea; brother, Sakarl; sister, Somealy; and Monorom.
Monorom Neth’s family with their family ID number documenting they have been accepted to go to the U.S, Chonburi, Thailand 1980. From left to right: Monorom’s mother, Om Van; sister, Somealea; brother, Sakarl; sister, Somealy; and Monorom.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, offering candles to a monk at a makeshift temple at Chonburi refugee camp, Thailand 1981. Other people in the photo are unidentified.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, offering candles to a monk at a makeshift temple at Chonburi refugee camp, Thailand 1981. Other people in the photo are unidentified.
Monorom Neth and his sister, Somealea, dressed in their best outfits hoping to go to the U.S. at Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1981.
Monorom Neth and his sister, Somealea, dressed in their best outfits hoping to go to the U.S. at Chonburi Refugee Processing Center, Thailand, 1981.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van (2nd from right), receiving a certificate, at the processing center in the Philippines, 1981. Monorom is not sure why she received the certificate, but notes she is wearing her best green blouse.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van (2nd from right), receiving a certificate, at the processing center in the Philippines, 1981. Monorom is not sure why she received the certificate, but notes she is wearing her best green blouse.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van (right) in the refugee processing center, Philippines, 1981. Monorom thinks this is a celebration in the English classroom. The woman to the left is the English teacher.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van (right) in the refugee processing center, Philippines, 1981. Monorom thinks this is a celebration in the English classroom. The woman to the left is the English teacher.
Monorom Neth’s sister, Somealea (in white blouse and black skirt), at the Philippine refugee processing center 1982. After being accepted for sponsorship to a third country, refugees were sent to processing centers in the Philipines. There they would study the language and social conventions of the host country.
Monorom Neth’s sister, Somealea (in white blouse and black skirt), at the Philippine refugee processing center 1982. After being accepted for sponsorship to a third country, refugees were sent to processing centers in the Philipines. There they would study the language and social conventions of the host country.
Monorom Neth’s uncle, Chum Ouch, and his wife, Vorn Om, standing in front of their home in Norwalk, CA, 1983. Chum Ouch sponsored Monorom’s family to the U.S. Two families (approx. 16 people) lived there and shared one car.
Monorom Neth’s uncle, Chum Ouch, and his wife, Vorn Om, standing in front of their home in Norwalk, CA, 1983. Chum Ouch sponsored Monorom’s family to the U.S. Two families (approx. 16 people) lived there and shared one car.
Monorom Neth’s sister, Somealy and their cousin, Sokunsothea Ouch, outside the house the two families (16 people altogether) lived when they first arrived in Norwalk, CA, 1983. Within the year, they moved to a smaller house.
Monorom Neth’s sister, Somealy and their cousin, Sokunsothea Ouch, outside the house the two families (16 people altogether) lived when they first arrived in Norwalk, CA, 1983. Within the year, they moved to a smaller house.
Monorom Neth (right) with his cousin, Someth Ouch, outside the house where the two families (16 people altogether) lived when they first arrived in Norwalk, CA, 1983. They may have lived there less than a year before moving to a smaller house.
Monorom Neth (right) with his cousin, Someth Ouch, outside the house where the two families (16 people altogether) lived when they first arrived in Norwalk, CA, 1983. They may have lived there less than a year before moving to a smaller house.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van (left), receiving a certificate of completion from the adult school in Norwalk, CA 1983.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van (left), receiving a certificate of completion from the adult school in Norwalk, CA 1983.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, with her niece, Christina Neth, Paramount, CA 1983. The two families (16 people altogether) lived in the house. The curtain behind the couch separated the living room into two rooms.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, with her niece, Christina Neth, Paramount, CA 1983. The two families (16 people altogether) lived in the house. The curtain behind the couch separated the living room into two rooms.
Monorom Neth’s class picture of perhaps the 7th grade at Nuffler Elementary School in Norwalk, CA 1983. He is standing at the far left of the first row in the plaid shirt and was probably 12 years old. His teacher, to the far right, was Mr. Roman. Monorom remembers being bullied by some classmates. He did not stay in touch with any of them after his family moved.
Monorom Neth’s class picture of perhaps the 7th grade at Nuffler Elementary School in Norwalk, CA 1983. He is standing at the far left of the first row in the plaid shirt and was probably 12 years old. His teacher, to the far right, was Mr. Roman. Monorom remembers being bullied by some classmates. He did not stay in touch with any of them after his family moved.
Monorom Neth’s ordination ceremony to become a novice monk, at the first Cambodian Buddhist temple, located in Lakewood, CA, in 1985. The ordination ceremony occurs in stages. At this stage, Monorom’s hair and eyebrows have been shaved to help eliminate vanity. His sister, Somealea, is walking with him to the main sanctuary where he will be ordained. She carries his robes on a silver tray. The robes are protected by an embroidered and beaded covering called “trai.” His other sister, Somealy, will also take a turn carrying the robes. The next stage will be to appear before the elder monks who will lead Monorom through the ceremony and from whom he will receive blessings and his robes. Following this, he will discard his old clothes, change into his robes, and return to the sanctuary as a novice monk. He will receive final blessings and acceptance from the monks, as well as well wishes from those in attendance.
Monorom Neth’s ordination ceremony to become a novice monk, at the first Cambodian Buddhist temple, located in Lakewood, CA, in 1985. The ordination ceremony occurs in stages. At this stage, Monorom’s hair and eyebrows have been shaved to help eliminate vanity. His sister, Somealea, is walking with him to the main sanctuary where he will be ordained. She carries his robes on a silver tray. The robes are protected by an embroidered and beaded covering called “trai.” His other sister, Somealy, will also take a turn carrying the robes. The next stage will be to appear before the elder monks who will lead Monorom through the ceremony and from whom he will receive blessings and his robes. Following this, he will discard his old clothes, change into his robes, and return to the sanctuary as a novice monk. He will receive final blessings and acceptance from the monks, as well as well wishes from those in attendance.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, is the last to carry Monorom’s robes into the temple sanctuary in Lakewood, CA 1985. In Cambodia, it was customary for every young Cambodian male to shave their head and spend some time as a novice monk. The merit the young man earns by becoming a monk was transferred to his parents, especially his mother. The ordination of a son is a prized gift for a mother and it is clear how happy Monorom’s mother is.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, is the last to carry Monorom’s robes into the temple sanctuary in Lakewood, CA 1985. In Cambodia, it was customary for every young Cambodian male to shave their head and spend some time as a novice monk. The merit the young man earns by becoming a monk was transferred to his parents, especially his mother. The ordination of a son is a prized gift for a mother and it is clear how happy Monorom’s mother is.
Monorom Neth (in orange robes) after completing the ordination ceremony as a novice Buddhist monk, at the Cambodian Buddhist temple in Lakewood, CA 1985. Present in the photo are Monorom’s sisters Somealy Neth (3rd from left) and Somealea (4th from left); his brother, Sakarl Neth (3rd from rt); his mother, Om Van (2nd from rt); and various cousins. The woman with the green shirt is Monorom’s oldest sister, Sovamma Neth.
Monorom Neth (in orange robes) after completing the ordination ceremony as a novice Buddhist monk, at the Cambodian Buddhist temple in Lakewood, CA 1985. Present in the photo are Monorom’s sisters Somealy Neth (3rd from left) and Somealea (4th from left); his brother, Sakarl Neth (3rd from rt); his mother, Om Van (2nd from rt); and various cousins. The woman with the green shirt is Monorom’s oldest sister, Sovamma Neth.
Monorom Neth after his ordination as a novice monk in the first Cambodian Buddhist temple in Lakewood, CA 1985. As a monk he must rise early to chant and meditate, he cannot eat anything after noon, and he may not touch any females, including his mother and sisters. Monorom completed this ceremony to honor his parents. The entire family participated in the ordination ceremony.
Monorom Neth after his ordination as a novice monk in the first Cambodian Buddhist temple in Lakewood, CA 1985. As a monk he must rise early to chant and meditate, he cannot eat anything after noon, and he may not touch any females, including his mother and sisters. Monorom completed this ceremony to honor his parents. The entire family participated in the ordination ceremony.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, and Monorom sitting on the couch, spending time together. He was probably 15 years old. Photo was taken in Bellflower, CA 1986.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, and Monorom sitting on the couch, spending time together. He was probably 15 years old. Photo was taken in Bellflower, CA 1986.
Monorom Neth’s brother, Sarkarl, becoming a novice monk at the Khemara Buddihikaram Cambodian Buddhist Temple in Long Beach, CA, 1988. Monorom’s mother, Om Van, is presenting Sarkarl’s robes to him. The robes are protected by an embroidered and beaded covering called a “trai.” He was ordained by Rev. Kong Cheang, the temple’s Abbot and the first Cambodian Buddhist monk in the U.S.
Monorom Neth’s brother, Sarkarl, becoming a novice monk at the Khemara Buddihikaram Cambodian Buddhist Temple in Long Beach, CA, 1988. Monorom’s mother, Om Van, is presenting Sarkarl’s robes to him. The robes are protected by an embroidered and beaded covering called a “trai.” He was ordained by Rev. Kong Cheang, the temple’s Abbot and the first Cambodian Buddhist monk in the U.S.
Monorom Neth’s brother, Sakarl Neth, during his ordination at the Khemara Buddihikaram Cambodian Buddhist Temple in Long Beach, CA, 1988 or 89. Sarkarl is reciting the rules to become a monk.
Monorom Neth’s brother, Sakarl Neth, during his ordination at the Khemara Buddihikaram Cambodian Buddhist Temple in Long Beach, CA, 1988 or 89. Sarkarl is reciting the rules to become a monk.
Monorom Neth with family as they celebrate Valerie’s birthday (in front of the birthday cake, wearing the blouse with the red bow) in Bellflower, CA 1989. From left to right: Monorom’s sister, Somealea; behind her, is Sakok; Monorom’s mother, Om Van; unnamed aunt behind her; Monorom’s sister, Somealy; Monorom; his cousin, Valerie Sam; his mother’s youngest sister, Savanna Om; Thida Neth, the two children in white and blue are unnamed. Monorom’s mother, Om Van, adopted Thida after her twin sister died. In Cambodia, it is common for extended family to adopt others from the extended family even when the parents of the adoptee are alive and live nearby.
Monorom Neth with family as they celebrate Valerie’s birthday (in front of the birthday cake, wearing the blouse with the red bow) in Bellflower, CA 1989. From left to right: Monorom’s sister, Somealea; behind her, is Sakok; Monorom’s mother, Om Van; unnamed aunt behind her; Monorom’s sister, Somealy; Monorom; his cousin, Valerie Sam; his mother’s youngest sister, Savanna Om; Thida Neth, the two children in white and blue are unnamed. Monorom’s mother, Om Van, adopted Thida after her twin sister died. In Cambodia, it is common for extended family to adopt others from the extended family even when the parents of the adoptee are alive and live nearby.
Monorom Neth (rt) with his future wife, Kessar Norodom in Norwalk, CA 1992. They met at Cerritos College and are on their first Valentine’s date.
Monorom Neth (rt) with his future wife, Kessar Norodom in Norwalk, CA 1992. They met at Cerritos College and are on their first Valentine’s date.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, at the Angkor area in Siem Reap, Cambodia 2001. This was her first visit back to Cambodia.
Monorom Neth’s mother, Om Van, at the Angkor area in Siem Reap, Cambodia 2001. This was her first visit back to Cambodia.
Wedding photo of Monorom Neth and his wife, Kessar Norodom in Bellflower, CA 2003. The ceremony was in her home. He was 33 years old at the time.
Wedding photo of Monorom Neth and his wife, Kessar Norodom in Bellflower, CA 2003. The ceremony was in her home. He was 33 years old at the time.
Monorom Neth with his family on a trip to Las Vegas, NV 2003. In back, from left to right: Monorom’s oldest son, Alex Norodom, Monorom’s wife, Kessar Norodom, and Monorom. In front are his daughters, Reachny Tan and Morindra Tan.
Monorom Neth with his family on a trip to Las Vegas, NV 2003. In back, from left to right: Monorom’s oldest son, Alex Norodom, Monorom’s wife, Kessar Norodom, and Monorom. In front are his daughters, Reachny Tan and Morindra Tan.
Monorom Neth with his mother, Om Van, at MacArthur Park in Long Beach, CA, 2007 after the Cambodia Town Parade.
Monorom Neth with his mother, Om Van, at MacArthur Park in Long Beach, CA, 2007 after the Cambodia Town Parade.

Namoch Sokhom

Biography

Namoch Sokhom was born in 1965 in Kampong Cham, Cambodia, a mid-sized city situated on the Mekong River, north of the capital, Phnom Penh.

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In 1970, to avoid the spreading civil war, Namouch’s father moved the family to Phnom Penh, and then to Battambang, close to the border with Thailand. After the Khmer Rouge took control of the country, Namoch’s family was separated into different work camps. They reunited in 1979, after the Vietnamese military entered Cambodia. The family escaped across the Thai border to the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp. Lutheran Services sponsored them to Minnesota, where Namoch completed high school and went on to earn an MBS in management from St. Olaf University. Namoch returned to Cambodia shortly after the country reopened to work with the International Monetary Fund but returned to the U.S. in July 1997 after a violent coup by the current ruling party. He moved his family to Los Angeles shortly after returning from Cambodia. He is currently the Director of the Business Development Center and Lending Program at a Community Development Financial Institution.

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Namoch Sokhom’s family before his birth at a fundraising event at one of the Buddhist temples his father, Luy Sokhom (in foreground, looking at the camera), helped to build in Kampong Cham Hanchey, Cambodia, 1963. At far left are Namoch’s two great aunts. Next to Luy is Namoch’s mother, Thach In with Namoch’s older sister, Namom, sitting in front of her. Luy’s cousin, Su An, is behind them. Behind Luy to his right is Namoch’s maternal grandfather, Pho. Luy Sokhom was an accomplished architect and artist, who built many temples.
Namoch Sokhom’s family before his birth at a fundraising event at one of the Buddhist temples his father, Luy Sokhom (in foreground, looking at the camera), helped to build in Kampong Cham Hanchey, Cambodia, 1963. At far left are Namoch’s two great aunts. Next to Luy is Namoch’s mother, Thach In with Namoch’s older sister, Namom, sitting in front of her. Luy’s cousin, Su An, is behind them. Behind Luy to his right is Namoch’s maternal grandfather, Pho. Luy Sokhom was an accomplished architect and artist, who built many temples.
Namoch’s family and supporters gather for a temple fundraising procession at Kompong Cham market, Kompong Cham Hanchey, Cambodia, 1963. Second from right is Namoch’s maternal grandfather; paternal grandfather (white hair and black shirt); unnamed; grand aunt, Mu Noy; Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom; Namoch’s mother, Thach In (holding an offering of new robes for the monks on her head); Luy Sokhom’s cousin, So An; Namoch’s maternal grandmother; and Namoch’s maternal aunt.
Namoch’s family and supporters gather for a temple fundraising procession at Kompong Cham market, Kompong Cham Hanchey, Cambodia, 1963. Second from right is Namoch’s maternal grandfather; paternal grandfather (white hair and black shirt); unnamed; grand aunt, Mu Noy; Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom; Namoch’s mother, Thach In (holding an offering of new robes for the monks on her head); Luy Sokhom’s cousin, So An; Namoch’s maternal grandmother; and Namoch’s maternal aunt.
Namoch Sokhom’s mother, Thach In, and father, Luy Sokhom, with their first daughter and oldest child, Namom Sokhom, in Kampong Cham Hanchey, Cambodia 1963.
Namoch Sokhom’s mother, Thach In, and father, Luy Sokhom, with their first daughter and oldest child, Namom Sokhom, in Kampong Cham Hanchey, Cambodia 1963.
Namoch Sokhom’s father, Luy Sokhom, at Stacha, Old Olympic Stadium, Cambodia 1965 or 66. Luy Sokhom was a world-class bicyclist and national hero before the Khmer Rouge period.
Namoch Sokhom’s father, Luy Sokhom, at Stacha, Old Olympic Stadium, Cambodia 1965 or 66. Luy Sokhom was a world-class bicyclist and national hero before the Khmer Rouge period.
Namoch Sokhom’s family visiting Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia, 1966. From left are Namoch’s maternal uncle (unnamed); his mother, Thach In; toddler, Namoch; his older sister, Namom Sokhom; his father, Luy Sokhom; his father’s apprentice, Kmit. Luy Sokhom was an accomplished temple architect and artist. He regularly visited temples throughout the country to study architectural features.
Namoch Sokhom’s family visiting Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia, 1966. From left are Namoch’s maternal uncle (unnamed); his mother, Thach In; toddler, Namoch; his older sister, Namom Sokhom; his father, Luy Sokhom; his father’s apprentice, Kmit. Luy Sokhom was an accomplished temple architect and artist. He regularly visited temples throughout the country to study architectural features.
The Cambodian bicycling team, Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1967. Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom is 3rd from left. He was a national hero for winning races in Cambodia and in the South East Asian games. Luy Sokhom was an accomplished architect and artist. Most of the other men on the cycling team were police and military.
The Cambodian bicycling team, Phnom Penh, Cambodia 1967. Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom is 3rd from left. He was a national hero for winning races in Cambodia and in the South East Asian games. Luy Sokhom was an accomplished architect and artist. Most of the other men on the cycling team were police and military.
Namoch Sokhom’s family attending a fundraising event at Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia 1967. From left: Namoch Sokhom’s father, Luy Sokhom; father’s great great aunt, Yey Kong; Namoch’s mother, Thach In.
Namoch Sokhom’s family attending a fundraising event at Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia 1967. From left: Namoch Sokhom’s father, Luy Sokhom; father’s great great aunt, Yey Kong; Namoch’s mother, Thach In.
Namoch Sokhom (left) with his sisters, Namom Sokhom, Sovathana Sokhom, and the youngest in front, Sophois Sokhom. Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979.
Namoch Sokhom (left) with his sisters, Namom Sokhom, Sovathana Sokhom, and the youngest in front, Sophois Sokhom. Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand 1979.
Formal documentation that Namoch Sokhom’s family has been accepted for resettlement in a third country, at the Galang II Refugee Camp in Indonesia, October 6, 1981. From left, is Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom; Namoch’s mother, Thach In; older sister, Namom Sakhom; Namoch; younger sister, Sovathana Sokhom; youngest sister, Sophois Sokhom. While waiting for processing to be completed, they attended English classes.
Formal documentation that Namoch Sokhom’s family has been accepted for resettlement in a third country, at the Galang II Refugee Camp in Indonesia, October 6, 1981. From left, is Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom; Namoch’s mother, Thach In; older sister, Namom Sakhom; Namoch; younger sister, Sovathana Sokhom; youngest sister, Sophois Sokhom. While waiting for processing to be completed, they attended English classes.
Namoch Sokhom with his family, in the Chonburi processing center, Thailand, 1981. From left, is Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom; his mother, Thach In; his older sister, Namon Sakhom; Namoch; and younger sister, Sovathana Sokhom. In front is the youngest sister, Sophois Sokhom. After passing the interview process, they were notified they would be going to the U.S. The family was sent to Galang II Refugee Camp in Indonesia, where they attended English classes before leaving for the U.S.
Namoch Sokhom with his family, in the Chonburi processing center, Thailand, 1981. From left, is Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom; his mother, Thach In; his older sister, Namon Sakhom; Namoch; and younger sister, Sovathana Sokhom. In front is the youngest sister, Sophois Sokhom. After passing the interview process, they were notified they would be going to the U.S. The family was sent to Galang II Refugee Camp in Indonesia, where they attended English classes before leaving for the U.S.
A reference letter from Save The Children detailing Namoch Sokhom’s accomplishments including the completion of the Teacher Training Course while in the Galang II Refugee Camp in Indonesia, November 4, 1981.
A reference letter from Save The Children detailing Namoch Sokhom’s accomplishments including the completion of the Teacher Training Course while in the Galang II Refugee Camp in Indonesia, November 4, 1981.
Namoch Sokhom (3rd from left) receiving a certificate from Optimist International in St. Paul, MN, 1984. From left: unnamed; Jeanette Olson who became a close family friend; Namoch; Mrs. Veislav, ESL counselor; Namoch’s mother, Thach In; Cambodia friend that the family stayed with when they arrived in Minnesota, Sam Ol Kahm and her husband, Kim Ean Seng; Namouch’s father, Luy Sokhom, can be seen smiling in the back. Namoch was nominated for the award by his chemistry teacher who was impressed by his positive and trusting outlook, and his hard work.
Namoch Sokhom (3rd from left) receiving a certificate from Optimist International in St. Paul, MN, 1984. From left: unnamed; Jeanette Olson who became a close family friend; Namoch; Mrs. Veislav, ESL counselor; Namoch’s mother, Thach In; Cambodia friend that the family stayed with when they arrived in Minnesota, Sam Ol Kahm and her husband, Kim Ean Seng; Namouch’s father, Luy Sokhom, can be seen smiling in the back. Namoch was nominated for the award by his chemistry teacher who was impressed by his positive and trusting outlook, and his hard work.
Namoch Sokhom with his family at the St. Paul, MN airport, 1995. Pictured are Namoch and his wife, Shufen Sokhom. Namoch is holding their newborn son, Lekhana and Sufen is holding their daughter, Rattnak. They are waiting to board a plane to visit Cambodia.
Namoch Sokhom with his family at the St. Paul, MN airport, 1995. Pictured are Namoch and his wife, Shufen Sokhom. Namoch is holding their newborn son, Lekhana and Sufen is holding their daughter, Rattnak. They are waiting to board a plane to visit Cambodia.
Namoch Sokhom (far right in hat) with his family and friends at Bayon temple, Siem Reap, Cambodia, 1996. From left is a Cambodian-American National Development Organization volunteer from Minnesota and his wife (both unnamed); Namoch’s sister, Sovathana; his wife Shufen holding their two children; and Namoch. Of note is the way Sufen is holding the children, with one in front and one in a carrier on her back. Cambodians criticized her because they held the babies only in front, but, according to Shufen, it was too hot to do that.
Namoch Sokhom (far right in hat) with his family and friends at Bayon temple, Siem Reap, Cambodia, 1996. From left is a Cambodian-American National Development Organization volunteer from Minnesota and his wife (both unnamed); Namoch’s sister, Sovathana; his wife Shufen holding their two children; and Namoch. Of note is the way Sufen is holding the children, with one in front and one in a carrier on her back. Cambodians criticized her because they held the babies only in front, but, according to Shufen, it was too hot to do that.
Namoch’s family gathered for a picnic in Long Beach, CA 2008. Back row, from left,: Sovathana Sokhom’s husband, Kim Hong San; Namoch’s younger sister, Sovathana Sokhom; Namoch Sokhom; Sophois Sokhom’s husband, Conor Weir; Namoch’s youngest sister, Sophois Sokhom; and Namoch’s wife, Shufen Sokhom. In the middle row seated are Namoch’s children, Lekhana Sokhom and Rattnak Sokhom (both wearing glasses); they are holding two of Sophois’ children, Sorika and Satya Weir. Standing in the red shirt is Sovathana’s son, Indra Sokhom-San. Seated with the dog (Pinky) is Sophois’ daughter Devy Weir; next to her in the blue shirt is Sovathana’s oldest son, Chakra Sokhom-San.
Namoch’s family gathered for a picnic in Long Beach, CA 2008. Back row, from left,: Sovathana Sokhom’s husband, Kim Hong San; Namoch’s younger sister, Sovathana Sokhom; Namoch Sokhom; Sophois Sokhom’s husband, Conor Weir; Namoch’s youngest sister, Sophois Sokhom; and Namoch’s wife, Shufen Sokhom. In the middle row seated are Namoch’s children, Lekhana Sokhom and Rattnak Sokhom (both wearing glasses); they are holding two of Sophois’ children, Sorika and Satya Weir. Standing in the red shirt is Sovathana’s son, Indra Sokhom-San. Seated with the dog (Pinky) is Sophois’ daughter Devy Weir; next to her in the blue shirt is Sovathana’s oldest son, Chakra Sokhom-San.
Namoch with his family at a picnic in Long Beach, CA 2008. From left are Namoch’s son, Lekhana; Namoch; his wife, Sufen; their daughter, Rattnak; and their rescue dog, Pinky.
Namoch with his family at a picnic in Long Beach, CA 2008. From left are Namoch’s son, Lekhana; Namoch; his wife, Sufen; their daughter, Rattnak; and their rescue dog, Pinky.
Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom at age 84 in a 117 km race for the 11th Annual Angkor Wat Bike race in Siem Reap, Cambodia 2019. He uses the whistle to warn people to get out of the way.
Namoch’s father, Luy Sokhom at age 84 in a 117 km race for the 11th Annual Angkor Wat Bike race in Siem Reap, Cambodia 2019. He uses the whistle to warn people to get out of the way.

Rom Hoy

Biography

Rom Hoy was born in 1967 in Sovanna Vong Trang village in Battambang Province, Cambodia.

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Her family owned a farm with a nice house. When the Khmer Rouge took control of the country, their home, fields, and animals were confiscated and they were separated into different labor camps. After the Vietnamese entered Cambodia in 1979, there was nothing left of their farm, so they escaped to the Thai border and entered the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp. After several years, they located an uncle living in Long Beach who was willing to sponsor them and, in 1985, they were finally able to leave for the U.S. Rom was 18 years old and could not attend school, so she studied Electronic Assembly and attended night classes in English at Wilson High School. She wants Cambodians to remember they are Khmer. For Rom, “Coming to America was like I was born again,” but she cautions her generation to not forget Cambodia.

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Rom Hoy with her family in Long Beach, CA 1987. Back row from left to right: her brother, Tony Hoy; Rom; her twin sister, Roeun Hoy; brother, Young Hoy; sister, Ran Hoy; brother, David Hoy; sister, Ren Hoy. Front row from left to right: brother, Yim Hoy; her mother, Lach Yiv; sister, Cindy Hoy; and her father, Hoeun Hoy. Photo taken in Long Beach, CA 1987.
Rom Hoy with her family in Long Beach, CA 1987. Back row from left to right: her brother, Tony Hoy; Rom; her twin sister, Roeun Hoy; brother, Young Hoy; sister, Ran Hoy; brother, David Hoy; sister, Ren Hoy. Front row from left to right: brother, Yim Hoy; her mother, Lach Yiv; sister, Cindy Hoy; and her father, Hoeun Hoy. Photo taken in Long Beach, CA 1987.
Rom Hoy and her family celebrating her daughter’s graduation from California State University, Long Beach in their home, Long Beach, CA, 2014. Back row from left to right: Rom’s son, Harrison Hoy; daughter, Annie Hoy; daughter, Terrie Hoy (in cap and gown); daughter, Chheng Jouy Hoy; and son, Havin Hoy. Front row, Lt to Rt: Rom’s husband, Chann Sao, and Rom (37 years old).
Rom Hoy and her family celebrating her daughter’s graduation from California State University, Long Beach in their home, Long Beach, CA, 2014. Back row from left to right: Rom’s son, Harrison Hoy; daughter, Annie Hoy; daughter, Terrie Hoy (in cap and gown); daughter, Chheng Jouy Hoy; and son, Havin Hoy. Front row, Lt to Rt: Rom’s husband, Chann Sao, and Rom (37 years old).

Sara Pol-Lim

Biography

Sara Pol-Lim was born on August 21, 1966, in Phnom Penh, Cambodia.

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On April 17, 1975, the Khmer Rouge entered the city and like thousands of others, Sara’s family was forced out of their home into labor camps in the Cambodian countryside. Following the entry of the Vietnamese military in 1979, she and her mother reunited with extended family. They learned that one of her uncles had been evacuated to California in 1975 so they made the dangerous journey to the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp across the border in Thailand to try to contact him. They arrived in the U.S. in 1983 and settled in Gardena, California. Sara always loved learning. After high school, she attended El Camino Community College and then CSU Long Beach. While working full time for the Orange County Department of Social Services, she completed her degree at National University and earned a masters from Chapman University. Sara began working at the United Cambodian Community in Long Beach in 1998 and became the first woman Executive Director in 2007. She returned to CSU Long Beach and, in 2018 earned a Doctorate in Educational Leadership, which she uses to inspire the next generation to invest in their education. Sara acknowledges that the course of her childhood changed on April 17, 1979. She says, “as a survivor of the genocide, you feel a sense of responsibility to ensure that what happened to you doesn’t happen to any other kid.”

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Sara Pol-Lim’s ID documenting she is approved for emigration to the U.S. Location: Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1982. Sara and her mother were sent to Kamput, Thailand for processing and to study English.
Sara Pol-Lim’s ID documenting she is approved for emigration to the U.S. Location: Khao-I-Dang refugee camp, 1982. Sara and her mother were sent to Kamput, Thailand for processing and to study English.
Sara Pol-Lim’s mother, Sao Ran Pol, at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in 1982. This is her mother’s official photo documenting she has been approved for emigration to the U.S. Sao and her daughter, Sara, were sent to Kamput, Thailand for processing and to study English.
Sara Pol-Lim’s mother, Sao Ran Pol, at Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in 1982. This is her mother’s official photo documenting she has been approved for emigration to the U.S. Sao and her daughter, Sara, were sent to Kamput, Thailand for processing and to study English.

Sithy Yi

Biography

Sithy was born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia in 1966.

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When the Khmer Rouge took control of Cambodia in 1975, her father was out of the country and could not return. Sithy, her mother and two siblings were sent to Koh Chheu Kmao and later to Battambang. Sithy developed a fever and was sent to a makeshift hospital. After recovering, she proved to be very good at gathering ingredients for medicines and was assigned to stay at the hospital to help. Concerned for her family, Sithy began to secretly take medicine and extra food to them which was very dangerous and could result in her execution. Sithy was severely beaten several times and made to watch executions as a warning of what would happen to her if she continued taking food to her family, but she didn’t stop. The day the soldiers announced they were going to kill Sithy and her family was the same day the Vietnamese arrived, and the family was spared. The family escaped to Thailand and entered the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp. They were sponsored to the U.S. by an uncle living in Long Beach and arrived in August 1981. Sithy never spoke about the beatings or the atrocities she witnessed to anyone, not even her family. She suffered debilitating anxiety and seizures which impaired her ability to learn. Sithy also struggled with life in the U.S. She was incarcerated but saved from deportation through the United Nations’ Convention Against Torture and Other Cruel, Inhuman or Degrading Treatment or Punishment. Sithy wanted to share her story in order to help others who have faced trouble like she has. She believes it is important to share: “Do not hide the problem. Speak out so they can help us. If we do not speak out and keep it to ourselves, it creates a bigger problem for ourselves and then no one can help us.”

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Studio portrait of Sithy Yi and her sisters taken in Phnom Penh, c. 1974 before the Khmer Rouge took control of Cambodia. The family surname prior to the Khmer Rouge was Diep, but they used Yi during the Khmer Rouge because the Diep family was marked for execution. From left to right are Sithy (5 yrs old) the family maid (unidentified), Sitheavy (2 yrs old, later changed her name to Jennifer Diep), and Sithea (4 yrs. old).
Studio portrait of Sithy Yi and her sisters taken in Phnom Penh, c. 1974 before the Khmer Rouge took control of Cambodia. The family surname prior to the Khmer Rouge was Diep, but they used Yi during the Khmer Rouge because the Diep family was marked for execution. From left to right are Sithy (5 yrs old) the family maid (unidentified), Sitheavy (2 yrs old, later changed her name to Jennifer Diep), and Sithea (4 yrs. old).
Studio portrait of Sithy Yi and her paternal aunt, Sina Diep, taken in Phnom Penh c. 1974 before the Khmer Rouge took control of Cambodia. The Yi family’s surname prior to the Khmer Rouge was Diep, but the Diep family was marked for execution, so they used Yi instead. From left to right are her cousin, Vithie Diep; her sister, Sithea Yi; her paternal aunt, Sina Diep; her cousin, Vithy Diep; and Sithy Yi.
Studio portrait of Sithy Yi and her paternal aunt, Sina Diep, taken in Phnom Penh c. 1974 before the Khmer Rouge took control of Cambodia. The Yi family’s surname prior to the Khmer Rouge was Diep, but the Diep family was marked for execution, so they used Yi instead. From left to right are her cousin, Vithie Diep; her sister, Sithea Yi; her paternal aunt, Sina Diep; her cousin, Vithy Diep; and Sithy Yi.
Yi family in their room at the Kampot Refugee Center in Thailand, 1981. Mats were hung as walls to separate the area into rooms. From left to right are Sithy’s mother, San Thi Tran; Sithy; her sister, Sithea; and Sitheavy. Sithy was about 12 or 13 at the time. Her mother hired a photographer so they could send photos to an uncle in the U.S. and family members in Vietnam letting them know they were alive.
Yi family in their room at the Kampot Refugee Center in Thailand, 1981. Mats were hung as walls to separate the area into rooms. From left to right are Sithy’s mother, San Thi Tran; Sithy; her sister, Sithea; and Sitheavy. Sithy was about 12 or 13 at the time. Her mother hired a photographer so they could send photos to an uncle in the U.S. and family members in Vietnam letting them know they were alive.
Sithy Yi (right) with her sister, Sithea in a garden at the Kampot Refugee Center, Thailand, 1981. They were maybe 13 and 12 years old. The pants they are wearing were probably made from sarongs.
Sithy Yi (right) with her sister, Sithea in a garden at the Kampot Refugee Center, Thailand, 1981. They were maybe 13 and 12 years old. The pants they are wearing were probably made from sarongs.
Sithy Yi at the Kampot Refugee Center, Thailand, 1981. Sithy is dressed to perform in the Wishing Dance, one of the first dances novices learn to perform. During the Khmer Rouge all forms of traditional dance and music, which were a central part of Cambodian life, were forbidden and performers were executed. It is estimated that 90% of all artists died during that time. The recreation of Cambodian music and dance was extremely important to the survivors. Music and dance troupes were formed in many of the refugee camps and children spent their days learning, practicing, and performing.
Sithy Yi at the Kampot Refugee Center, Thailand, 1981. Sithy is dressed to perform in the Wishing Dance, one of the first dances novices learn to perform. During the Khmer Rouge all forms of traditional dance and music, which were a central part of Cambodian life, were forbidden and performers were executed. It is estimated that 90% of all artists died during that time. The recreation of Cambodian music and dance was extremely important to the survivors. Music and dance troupes were formed in many of the refugee camps and children spent their days learning, practicing, and performing.
Sithy Yi performing the Fishing folkdance with Chhean Sreng Ngive at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, in 1981. In the Fishing dance boys flirt with girls who are busy gathering fish for their family’s dinner. The basket Sithy is holding is designed to catch a specific kind of fish along the shore. Sithy and the other dancers in the group have stayed in touch over the years. There were about fifty who are now living in Belgium, France, Cambodia, Australia and the U.S. Chhean lives in Minnesota.
Sithy Yi performing the Fishing folkdance with Chhean Sreng Ngive at the Khao-I-Dang refugee camp in Thailand, in 1981. In the Fishing dance boys flirt with girls who are busy gathering fish for their family’s dinner. The basket Sithy is holding is designed to catch a specific kind of fish along the shore. Sithy and the other dancers in the group have stayed in touch over the years. There were about fifty who are now living in Belgium, France, Cambodia, Australia and the U.S. Chhean lives in Minnesota.
Sithy Yi and her family at the Kampot Refugee Center waiting to board the bus going to the Chonburi Refugee Center, Thailand, where they were processed for travel to the U.S. Friends came to say goodbye. From left to right are Touch (nickname); unidentified boy; Thivuth; Sithy’s sisters, Sitheavy and Sithea; Sithy’s mother, San Thi Tran; Sithy; Srey; Ravida Ma (wearing orange blouse); dancer, Mach (nickname); music teacher, Seoun; dancer, Noy.
Sithy Yi and her family at the Kampot Refugee Center waiting to board the bus going to the Chonburi Refugee Center, Thailand, where they were processed for travel to the U.S. Friends came to say goodbye. From left to right are Touch (nickname); unidentified boy; Thivuth; Sithy’s sisters, Sitheavy and Sithea; Sithy’s mother, San Thi Tran; Sithy; Srey; Ravida Ma (wearing orange blouse); dancer, Mach (nickname); music teacher, Seoun; dancer, Noy.
On May 29, 1981, Sithy Yi’s family was approved for travel from the Chonburi refugee camp in Thailand to Long Beach, California. Their uncle, Tran Anh, who lived in Long Beach, had sponsored them.
On May 29, 1981, Sithy Yi’s family was approved for travel from the Chonburi refugee camp in Thailand to Long Beach, California. Their uncle, Tran Anh, who lived in Long Beach, had sponsored them.
Sithy Yi (center) is performing the Coconut folk dance with her sister, Sithea (right), and a friend, Ouch (nickname), in a Buddhist temple in the Bataan Refugee Processing Center in the Philippines. The young man on the left in the back row is Rithear Chhang; the other two are unidentified. Each dance style has its own costuming convention, but the correct materials were not available in the camps, so performers improvised. Here the young women are wearing sarongs. The young men are wearing Salvation Army t-shirts and black pants in an attempt to be dressed alike.
Sithy Yi (center) is performing the Coconut folk dance with her sister, Sithea (right), and a friend, Ouch (nickname), in a Buddhist temple in the Bataan Refugee Processing Center in the Philippines. The young man on the left in the back row is Rithear Chhang; the other two are unidentified. Each dance style has its own costuming convention, but the correct materials were not available in the camps, so performers improvised. Here the young women are wearing sarongs. The young men are wearing Salvation Army t-shirts and black pants in an attempt to be dressed alike.
Sithy Yi (front) and two unidentified friends are walking along the stream in the Bataan Refugee Processing Center in the Philippines, 1981.Sithy’s uncle, Tran Anh, who lived in Long Beach, CA. sent the family some money to buy clothes. They also hired a photographer to take pictures.
Sithy Yi (front) and two unidentified friends are walking along the stream in the Bataan Refugee Processing Center in the Philippines, 1981.Sithy’s uncle, Tran Anh, who lived in Long Beach, CA. sent the family some money to buy clothes. They also hired a photographer to take pictures.
Sithy Yi with her family in her uncle’s home in Long Beach, Ca in 1982. From left to right are her youngest sister, Sitheavy Yi (Jennifer Diep); Sithy; her uncle’s daughter, Sheila Tran; her mother, San Thi Tran; and middle sister, Sithea (Sithea San). Sithy is not sure, but it looks like they had gathered for a holiday celebration. The family lived with their uncle for about one year. Sithy was probably about 15 years old and was attending 9th grade at Jefferson Middle School in Long Beach.
Sithy Yi with her family in her uncle’s home in Long Beach, Ca in 1982. From left to right are her youngest sister, Sitheavy Yi (Jennifer Diep); Sithy; her uncle’s daughter, Sheila Tran; her mother, San Thi Tran; and middle sister, Sithea (Sithea San). Sithy is not sure, but it looks like they had gathered for a holiday celebration. The family lived with their uncle for about one year. Sithy was probably about 15 years old and was attending 9th grade at Jefferson Middle School in Long Beach.
Sithy and her sisters practicing the Wishing Dance in Long Beach CA c. 1982 (location unidentified). From left to right: Sithea Yi, Sithy, and Sitheavy Yi. Sithy crocheted all the blouses for them.
Sithy and her sisters practicing the Wishing Dance in Long Beach CA c. 1982 (location unidentified). From left to right: Sithea Yi, Sithy, and Sitheavy Yi. Sithy crocheted all the blouses for them.
Sithy Yi won 2nd place in this singing contest held in Long Beach, Ca in 1983. She was about 16 at the time. She loves singing and partying.
Sithy Yi won 2nd place in this singing contest held in Long Beach, Ca in 1983. She was about 16 at the time. She loves singing and partying.
Sithy Yi, Long Beach, CA 1984. Sithy is a talented seamstress. She made clothes for the whole family in the refugee camps and their early days in Long Beach. The dress she is wearing is an example of her talent.
Sithy Yi, Long Beach, CA 1984. Sithy is a talented seamstress. She made clothes for the whole family in the refugee camps and their early days in Long Beach. The dress she is wearing is an example of her talent.
Sithy Yi’s mother, San Thi Tuot Tran and father, Len Diep, at Sithea Yi’s wedding to Richer San at the Apsara Restaurant in Long Beach, Ca., in 1991. Sithy’s mother had several names. The family used Yi instead of their real name, Diep, during the Khmer Rouge to hide their identity.
Sithy Yi’s mother, San Thi Tuot Tran and father, Len Diep, at Sithea Yi’s wedding to Richer San at the Apsara Restaurant in Long Beach, Ca., in 1991. Sithy’s mother had several names. The family used Yi instead of their real name, Diep, during the Khmer Rouge to hide their identity.
Sithy Yi (far right) at her sister, Sithea Yi’s wedding to Richer San at the Apsara restaurant in Long Beach, CA 1991. From left to right: Sithea’s sister, Jennier Diep (Sitheavy Yi); the groom, Richer San; the bride, Sithea (Yi) San; her mother, San Thi Tran; her father, Len Diep; and Sithy Yi. In the background are the band and singer.
Sithy Yi (far right) at her sister, Sithea Yi’s wedding to Richer San at the Apsara restaurant in Long Beach, CA 1991. From left to right: Sithea’s sister, Jennier Diep (Sitheavy Yi); the groom, Richer San; the bride, Sithea (Yi) San; her mother, San Thi Tran; her father, Len Diep; and Sithy Yi. In the background are the band and singer.
Sithy Yi (3rd from left in red) walking in the 2016 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival held each April in celebration of Cambodian New Year. From left to right: Sithy’s sister, Sitheavy Yi (Jennifer Diep); Nanda Pok; Sithy Yi; Sithy’s daughter, Lauren Thor (as the queen); Sithea’s brother-in-law, Paul San; Sithea’s sister-in-law, Vanna (last name unidentified); and Sithy’s son, Lucas Nguyen. The entire family is involved in this annual; community event.
Sithy Yi (3rd from left in red) walking in the 2016 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival held each April in celebration of Cambodian New Year. From left to right: Sithy’s sister, Sitheavy Yi (Jennifer Diep); Nanda Pok; Sithy Yi; Sithy’s daughter, Lauren Thor (as the queen); Sithea’s brother-in-law, Paul San; Sithea’s sister-in-law, Vanna (last name unidentified); and Sithy’s son, Lucas Nguyen. The entire family is involved in this annual; community event.
Sithy and her family at the book launch of Exiled – From the Killing Fields of Cambodia and Back, by Katya Cengel, Los Angeles, CA, November 1, 2018. Sithy’s story as a survivor of genocide, refugee, and possible deporttee, is told in this book. Back row, left to right: Richer San (brother-in-law); Sithea San (sister); Lucas Nguyen (son); Ben (daughter Paulina’s boyfriend); Paulina Chea (daughter); Loris Thor (daughter); Laurel Thor (daughter); Dy Heng, (daughter, Lauren’s boyfriend) Jocelyn Heng (daughter), Kim Chheang (Sithy’s boyfriend). Front row left to right: Madelyn Heng (granddaughter); Lauren Thor (daughter); Kaliya Kuy (granddaughter); San Thi Tran (Sithy’s mother); Katya Cengel (author); Makayla Heng (granddaughter); Sithy Yi.
Sithy and her family at the book launch of Exiled – From the Killing Fields of Cambodia and Back, by Katya Cengel, Los Angeles, CA, November 1, 2018. Sithy’s story as a survivor of genocide, refugee, and possible deporttee, is told in this book. Back row, left to right: Richer San (brother-in-law); Sithea San (sister); Lucas Nguyen (son); Ben (daughter Paulina’s boyfriend); Paulina Chea (daughter); Loris Thor (daughter); Laurel Thor (daughter); Dy Heng, (daughter, Lauren’s boyfriend) Jocelyn Heng (daughter), Kim Chheang (Sithy’s boyfriend). Front row left to right: Madelyn Heng (granddaughter); Lauren Thor (daughter); Kaliya Kuy (granddaughter); San Thi Tran (Sithy’s mother); Katya Cengel (author); Makayla Heng (granddaughter); Sithy Yi.
Sithy with her mother and five of her children at the book launch of Exiled – From the Killing Fields of Cambodia and Back, by Katya Cenge, Los Angeles, CA, November 1, 2018. . From left to right: Loris Thor (daughter); Lauren Thor (daughter); Sithy Yi, San Thi Tran (Sithy’s mother); Paulina Chea (daughter); Laurel Thor (daughter); and Lucas Nguyen (son).
Sithy with her mother and five of her children at the book launch of Exiled – From the Killing Fields of Cambodia and Back, by Katya Cenge, Los Angeles, CA, November 1, 2018. . From left to right: Loris Thor (daughter); Lauren Thor (daughter); Sithy Yi, San Thi Tran (Sithy’s mother); Paulina Chea (daughter); Laurel Thor (daughter); and Lucas Nguyen (son).
Sithy Yi (center front) with volunteers for the Stop The Hate with Love campaign in Long Beach, CA 2023. The troupe was practicing their parade formation for the 2023 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival. Sithy was assistant coordinator for the event and oversaw rehearsals, costuming, and hair.
Sithy Yi (center front) with volunteers for the Stop The Hate with Love campaign in Long Beach, CA 2023. The troupe was practicing their parade formation for the 2023 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival. Sithy was assistant coordinator for the event and oversaw rehearsals, costuming, and hair.
Sithy Yi with the Stop The Hate with Love dance troupe waiting on Anaheim Street in Long Beach, CA to march in 2023 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival, April 22, 2023. With the troupe is Long Beach Mayor, Rex Richardson (center in green jacket) and California State Attorney General, Rob Bonta (center in blue). Sithy is standing to the left of Mayor Richardson. Sithy’s sister, Sithea San, is second from the right in the front row wearing sunglasses. Sithea is President of the Cambodia Town Board and one of the coordinators for the event.
Sithy Yi with the Stop The Hate with Love dance troupe waiting on Anaheim Street in Long Beach, CA to march in 2023 Cambodia Town Parade and Culture Festival, April 22, 2023. With the troupe is Long Beach Mayor, Rex Richardson (center in green jacket) and California State Attorney General, Rob Bonta (center in blue). Sithy is standing to the left of Mayor Richardson. Sithy’s sister, Sithea San, is second from the right in the front row wearing sunglasses. Sithea is President of the Cambodia Town Board and one of the coordinators for the event.
Sithy Yi leading the Stop the Hate with Love dance troupe marching on Anaheim Street, Long Beach, in the 2023 Cambodia Town Parade, April 2. The troupe carried banners and fans with the Stop the Hate message which was the parade theme that year. Sithy Yi has a strong commitment to the Cambodian community and participates in this event nearly every year in some capacity.
Sithy Yi leading the Stop the Hate with Love dance troupe marching on Anaheim Street, Long Beach, in the 2023 Cambodia Town Parade, April 2. The troupe carried banners and fans with the Stop the Hate message which was the parade theme that year. Sithy Yi has a strong commitment to the Cambodian community and participates in this event nearly every year in some capacity.

Sophy Khut

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Sophy Khut was born October 8, 1965 in Chong Kal Village, Oddar Meanchey Province in northwest Cambodia.

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She was 10 years old when the Khmer Rouge took control of the country. Having been a member of the local National Guard, her father and extended family of 15 were to be executed, so they fled barefoot and without food through the jungle to the Thai border. The family was sponsored by and uncle who was already in the U.S. They settled in Longview, Oregon. Sophy did well in school and got involved in sports. She and her siblings were bullied at first, but eventually made lifelong friends with the other children. After high school, Sophy went to Oregon State, earning a B.A. in Finance and Psychology. She opened her first restaurant, called Apsara, in 1990 in Beaver, Oregon. Wanting to be in a larger Cambodian community, Sophy moved to Long Beach, bought a Chinese restaurant and transformed it into a Cambodian restaurant. When asked about her life, Sophy says, “I think if you can put your heart and determination to be somebody, to help somebody, to forgive somebody, I think you can do it. Anybody can do it, as long as they believe it.”

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Sophy Khut’s family at the Surin refugee camp in Thailand in 1976. Back row, left to right: Sophy’s sister, Sopha; brother, Sokheng; Sophy's father, Kheam Khut; mother, Sophea Khim; and brother-in-law, Nguon Lem. Middle row, left to right are Sophy’s brother Sophal, Sophy, and younger brother, Sophat. The youngest brother, Chetra, is standing in front of Sophy. They were at the Surin camp for six months.
Sophy Khut’s family at the Surin refugee camp in Thailand in 1976. Back row, left to right: Sophy’s sister, Sopha; brother, Sokheng; Sophy’s father, Kheam Khut; mother, Sophea Khim; and brother-in-law, Nguon Lem. Middle row, left to right are Sophy’s brother Sophal, Sophy, and younger brother, Sophat. The youngest brother, Chetra, is standing in front of Sophy. They were at the Surin camp for six months.
Sophy Khut and her siblings shortly after arriving in Portland, Oregon in 1976. From left to right: Sophy’s brother, Sophal, Sophy, and her brothers Chetra and Sophat. In the upper right corner of the picture is Sophy’s brother Sokheng. They flew to Oregon from the refugee camp in Surin, Thailand.
Sophy Khut and her siblings shortly after arriving in Portland, Oregon in 1976. From left to right: Sophy’s brother, Sophal, Sophy, and her brothers Chetra and Sophat. In the upper right corner of the picture is Sophy’s brother Sokheng. They flew to Oregon from the refugee camp in Surin, Thailand.
Sophy Khut in Portland, OR in 1982. Sophy loves sports and was third baseman on a Little League softball team for eight or nine years.
Sophy Khut in Portland, OR in 1982. Sophy loves sports and was third baseman on a Little League softball team for eight or nine years.
Sophy Khut’s graduation from Cleveland High School in Portland, OR 1984.
Sophy Khut’s graduation from Cleveland High School in Portland, OR 1984.
Sophy Khut was president of the Cambodian Cooperative for International Students at Portland State University in Oregon. She is speaking at an event in 1988.
Sophy Khut was president of the Cambodian Cooperative for International Students at Portland State University in Oregon. She is speaking at an event in 1988.
Sophy Khut in front of her home in Portland, Oregon in 1989. She graduated from Portland State University with a BA in Finance and Psychology in 1989.
Sophy Khut in front of her home in Portland, Oregon in 1989. She graduated from Portland State University with a BA in Finance and Psychology in 1989.
Sophy Khut (center) with her father, Khean Khut, and her mother, Sophea Khim in Long Beach in 2006. There were very few Cambodians in the Portland area and Sophy wanted more contact with her culture. After college, she decided to move to Long Beach, which has the largest concentration of Cambodians in the U.S. Sophy opened a couple restaurants before opening Sophy’s Cambodian Cuisine on Pacific Coast Highway in Long Beach. Her parents remained in Portland.
Sophy Khut (center) with her father, Khean Khut, and her mother, Sophea Khim in Long Beach in 2006. There were very few Cambodians in the Portland area and Sophy wanted more contact with her culture. After college, she decided to move to Long Beach, which has the largest concentration of Cambodians in the U.S. Sophy opened a couple restaurants before opening Sophy’s Cambodian Cuisine on Pacific Coast Highway in Long Beach. Her parents remained in Portland.
Sophy Khut (center) with her siblings at Sophat Khut’s wedding in Portland, OR in 2006. From left to right: Chetra, Sophat, Sophy, Sophal, Sokheng, Sakhenn, and Sopha Lem.
Sophy Khut (center) with her siblings at Sophat Khut’s wedding in Portland, OR in 2006. From left to right: Chetra, Sophat, Sophy, Sophal, Sokheng, Sakhenn, and Sopha Lem.

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